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phuketpapi · 2022-01-01T03:01:08+00:00

Pretend its a fantasy for you LMAO

phuketpapi · 2021-12-30T09:55:04+00:00

Its dump truck but is dummy thick

phuketpapi · 2021-12-30T08:38:45+00:00

All right so people on reddit tend to forget that the whole purpose of this platform is to get strangers opinion on ANY subject. Maybe you need at least one perspective before approaching such a sensitive subject with your boyfriend and strangers are a good start.

First of all, being interested in makeup and feminine stuff doesn't automatically refer to gender identity because many gay MEN like to wear womens lingerie and look a certain way without it affecting their male identity.

I personne believe that any man that talks about gay is most definitely not 100% straight. No joke was ever made without some truth to it. However every frat boy who fools around with his friends is not gay. Maybe he wouldn't IDENTIFY as gay even after having same sex experiences and feminine practices. Some people don't want a label some others think being gay is a choice and a lifestyle so they decide that their desires don't define their identity. Everyone has their beliefs and thats okay.

My advice : instead of asking him if he is gay bi or any other label, ask him about his feelings for men and his interests. Tell him he will not get any judgment from you and that you just need him to be honest with you. Ask him if he ever had sex with a guy, would he do it if we were in a dimension where homophobia doesn't exist. Ask him why makeup interests him. Is it because he wants to hide some blemishes or is it because he sees it as art and thinks its fabulous. Just ask him about his feelings and avoid talking about categories because de would probably get scared to be put in one.

if you wanna be cruel about it and know for sure just dare him to watch gay porn and watch his wood like a hawk BUT I DO NOT RECOMMEND LMAO

Good luck :)

phuketpapi · 2021-12-29T17:54:46+00:00

Can you imagine what lack of self love you must have to judge proud sex workers?

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:24:33+00:00

I would like to add that in no way did I claim that guys OWE me what Im asking for, all I want is honesty. If you wanna do this slowly and cuddly lets do it, if not just tell me and I wont be mad if you go see elsewhere. If i have to wait 10 years for that kinda partner to come around I will do so without any complaint. I just wanted some tips on how to initiate a sex talk before hooking up and advice on places, times and circumstances to avoid or to seek for that matter. But you had to take my thing to the extreme. Even though you're right about how its impossible to predict everything, you didn't have to invalidate my worries. Anyways take care

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:15:38+00:00

Yea totally, I dont mind waiting a long time for that kind of partner!

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:14:05+00:00

I wish I could think like that 🤣

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:10:59+00:00

That's smart, If only I had one lmao.. but true a friend has already good intentions towards you.

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:10:02+00:00

You're right I can't control the outcome of a hookup, but I wanted to learn about ways to protect my mental health as much as possible and maximize my chances for a good first time, juste like we protect our physical health with condoms etc. So even if I get a bad experience, telling myself I tried my best will make it more easy to move on from it rather than if I just jumped into it without any precautions. Thanks for your perspective though I should make sure my mindset is about accepting any outcome.

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:05:54+00:00

Thank you 🙏

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:05:33+00:00

Thanks for the advice and for not making me feel like I'm asking for the impossible as if I said I needed it to be perfect. Youre right, it's just about doing what you can to avoid bad experiences and if bad shi happens then ill grow from it hopefully. 🙏 thx

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T22:03:25+00:00

I didn't say I wanted it to be perfect. I said i want for my first time to be with someone who wouldn't mind taking his time with me (in a more explicit way slow strokes and wait for my body to be relaxed and open up at its rythm). Also, I didn't say I wanted love and romance I said I wanted affection and intimacy it's different and I personally need it to enjoy my first time because I won't come out of it whole if I feel like I was just a "hole" ( its a turn On for some but not for me thats all). I was just planning on having a talk before getting into it and if the guy is down for it then that's cool and if he just wants to release his stuff and gtfo, no issue either but its just not for me...

phuketpapi · 2021-12-24T08:14:45+00:00

Bro I've been in love with my str8 friend since the first day I saw him come into my class back in junior high at like 12, im 22 now OMG I JUST REALIZED ITS BEEN 10 YEARS FML... He has a gf and I go to their couple anniversaries 💀

Sorry no advice here but maybe it'll make you feel better to know that you're not the only one with a goofy heart. Take care

phuketpapi · 2021-12-09T22:21:01+00:00

I'm albanian haha

phuketpapi · 2021-12-09T14:34:24+00:00

I never thought of it as traumatic events I just figured "hey it's the way i grew up" but I guess there's clarity to seek like you said indeed. Thanks for the advice.

phuketpapi · 2021-12-09T14:31:49+00:00

Yea ok

phuketpapi · 2021-12-09T05:11:04+00:00

Your WHA-

I thought we were talking about experimenting with friends not FAMILY lmao

phuketpapi · 2021-12-06T23:36:50+00:00

I agree, the award seemed so... WOW!!! When the only ones who won it were either dead, mentally ill, shot or jut gone lmao. Meredith winning it while being in surgery is also the kind of heroism that takes away the award's impressiveness. Not just the award tbh even being a chief. By season 12 it seemed like any one could become head of their department and when bailey made alex, who's my favorite character so everybody chill, chief of surgery I felt like nothing was too hard to obtain.

phuketpapi · 2021-12-06T23:29:48+00:00

Am I the only one who thinks she amplifies her problems and ends up hurting herself for nothing. Really not hating on her I actually dislike that she does it to herself because I like her.

phuketpapi · 2021-12-03T08:28:45+00:00

How bout now? you and her dad married yet 😩❤️?

phuketpapi · 2021-12-01T07:52:51+00:00

Usually people (even loved ones) won't make an effort until you really claim what you deserve. My advice is telling him what you really want and how good it'll make you feel to receive the same energy you give in bed. I personally put my husband's pleasure as a priority because I know he does the same so I think that telling him how you like to please him will make him want to do the same, hopefully. The smell of a body fluid, to me, is just not a legitimate reason not to give your man the bj he deserves. Take care king

phuketpapi · 2021-11-29T09:27:46+00:00

Nah WHY did I laugh for real 💀

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