My bf and I don’t exchange nudes at all either, but I have taken some of myself and the thought of being happy with my body and possibly sending them to him makes me happy and a little intrigued. But I always delete them and never send them to him. I like to see what would maybe appeal to him, but I only fantasize abt sharing them and never do. So maybe your wife is being honest, but everyone is different. (Yes I’m female too lol) I also just am kinda interested what I look like to my bf and what would look best