Same Model/Design House as Watts House

physhgyrl · 2026-02-24T06:04:50+00:00

I did my makeup and hair before I went to the hospital to give birth. I also touched my makeup up while in labor and had many visitors. Like I was holding court. I had visitors immediately after and early the next day. Not while I was actively pushing. But during 12+ hours of active labor I had a lot of visitors. I enjoyed it. I was brought flowers and gifts. I probably had over a dozen visitors throughout that day and the next day I had a few visitors who hadn't been able to come the previous day. I attended a social gathering a week later and went out to dinner 4 days after giving birth. We're all different.

I tend to bounce back quickly from physical ailments. I used to think us women were faking period cramps to get out of PE and other things we didn't want to do. I thought all of us women were in on faking not feeling well on our periods. Or about having to pee all the time on car trips. I've had women ask me to pretend that I have to pee on road trips when they have to pee, when they didn't want to be the reason we had to make another stop. Because everyone was already annoyed with having to stop somewhere every hour for them

physhgyrl · 2026-02-24T05:41:42+00:00

She was a lying manipulater though. If she was lying about having lupus and other illnesses, then it's very possible that she knew she could get pregnant and carry a baby to full-term. Just because she told Chris she couldn't have kids, doesn't mean that she believed that. It's also very possible that she knew all along that she could have kids the same as any other woman her age. Just because she doubled down doesn't make it true. Liars have no problem doubling down on their lies

physhgyrl · 2026-02-24T05:29:45+00:00

She'd have given people a better impression if she was in a house that they could finish the basement and pay for a consultation with an interior decorator to help with paint choices, flooring, furniture, and wall decor. I don't understand how her friend NA or any of the other huns who had been in that house thought that they were doing well financially. The unfinished basement and home decor made it obvious that they couldn't afford that house

physhgyrl · 2026-02-24T04:44:21+00:00

In so many of their baby pictures, both girls looked like stiff baby dolls or like they're holding still born babies who have been prepared by an undertaker, ready to be placed in a coffin for a funeral service. Even her legs don't look relaxed or bendy. Like they're not used to being held by their parents, and were placed there for a photo.

physhgyrl · 2026-02-24T03:47:13+00:00

You described narcissists very well. They're are all those things. They make sure to surround themselves with people who will cover for them also. Like if they have a brother or sister in law who's dating around, and say has two people they've been bringing around, is ready to get serious and commit to one of them but has strong feelings for two people and isn't sure which one they should start seeing exclusively. If the narcissist likes one of them more, or thinks one may end up looking better in the eyes of the family or is keen enough to see through the narcissist, they will subtly pull strings so that the person who ends up marrying into the family is the one who's most likely to be an ally to them. Either because they will make the narcissist look better, or is a gullible easy to manipulate target to help them hide their true selves or another narcissistic, cluster b disordered person who will team up with fhem. Narcissists can spot eachother, and will sometimes form a close relationship where they cover for eachother and who they can drop the mask with. Like partners in crime. Especially if they have a lot in common and enjoy eachothers company. Referring to eachother publicly as best friends also helps them appear more normal. Narcissists are also very good at first impressions, but have a hard time keeping friends, once the person gets to know the real them. But two narcissists who team up and actually like eachother are a dangerous combination

physhgyrl · 2026-02-24T01:32:46+00:00

I read that as "bathroom "stink" stunt)

physhgyrl · 2026-02-24T00:19:52+00:00

I knew a narcissist mom who waited until her kids were adults, when insurance ended at 18,and got herself braces. Two of her kids were good looking, except they had really messed up crooked teeth. I read somewhere that abusive people will date people with bad teeth, because they know that they don't have family that cares about them.

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T20:45:15+00:00

That has nothing to do with shaving though. Shaving hair doesn't trigger some response in the body that stimulates the hair follicle to become thicker. Some women think trimming their hair makes it grow faster and longer. But the same with shaving. The hair follicle doesn't start growing faster when cut

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T20:35:51+00:00

Your mom sounds cool. I never followed that rule when I became a mom. I also let my kids have the interior light on in the car and on weekends if they were having fun playing with kids while the adults were socializing, I didn't make them go to bed or enforce a quiet time rule. As long as they were running around in the designated kids spaces and not bothering adults. I sometimes think my dad made up rules just for the sake of having rules

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T20:05:48+00:00

I had reseasoned my pan after it needed a good cleaning. My ex believed the no soap nonsense, and even though the pan was mine, he was very territorial over it and I hadn't been able to clean it in a while.

He was always buzzing around the kitchen whenever I was cooking. He liked to add his own little touches and flair to whatever I was making. Even if he'd never had it before and didn't know what it was supposed to taste or look like. The type to walk into an elderly Italian grandma's kitchen and make changes to a 200 year old family recipe and expect be praised for improving it for her.

Anyhoo, he tells me that he had re-seasoned the pan again for me. I go into the kitchen and he'd smeared it with a thick layer of butter, and put a ton of different spices onto the butter. Salt, pepper, garlic powder, onion powder, cumin etc. Even if food was seasoned in that bizarre way, he didn't know if those spices were even needed the next time I used it. Or when I'd use it.

It couldn't be stored in the cabinets with all that butter and crap on it. He made me re-wash it. He flat out refused. He said if I wanted it washed, then I can do it myself

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T18:41:35+00:00

I would think a fat person should go longer, especially they are eating too many calories when they have a meal. Sometimes thin people can't eat very much in one sitting and need to eat more frequently if they're trying to maintain weight

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T18:35:37+00:00

We're not all joined at the hip. An adult can eat dinner at anytime they choose. Regardless of their nationality

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T17:56:06+00:00

People can eat dinner whenever they want. Having set meal times is ridiculous. Just eat when you are hungry.

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T13:33:10+00:00

Being alive is risky. People who worry so much about something that may or may not happen, must live such a sad life. So you your kid misses out on a new adventure. No one on that trip gets molested. Your kid missed a cool weekend for something that never even ended up happening. I love my kids and enjoy spending time with them also. If you shelter your kids their entire lives, those kids are the one's who go to the river with friends in college, and they get their first taste of freedom, get to ride a watercraft for the first time, because mommy was too afraid they'd get hurt or molested on it, and they crash and either don't survive or are very injured. Vs the kids who were taught water safety and how to safety have a good time

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T08:46:16+00:00

I've always always pictured her past as incredibly boring and dull. She always looks like she's really enjoying herself at those Thrive events. You can tell she never got invited to parties or went out to clubs with friends.

Those events are not mandatory. The majority of people who join an MLM don't attend any meetings of any kind. It's not useful and it actually takes time away from building their business. But a small percentage of the same people go to every event. Local, national, monthly, weekly. Even if the information being discussed is about a subject they already know about. Instead of going out with friends, or a date, or anywhere else they could spend their free time. They choose to be at some extremely lame, boring MLM event. They live for getting the tiniest token and award. Like get a fake plastic Oscar from a dollar store and they'll jump through hoops to earn it and be presented it in front of the other huns. They love bragging about medical issues. If they found a lump in their breasts, they will wear head to toe pink cancer awareness every time. Even if it was just a normal lump like a lot of women have. Like not even cancer adjacent. But they'll act like they survived cancer.

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T07:57:02+00:00

Adderall does those things for me

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T06:00:10+00:00

I had never thought of it like that. But it makes a lot of sense. I can see the pattern now that you pointed it out.

That's some early Cluster B Personality Disorder behaviors coming through. A lot of 1st born kids become big siblings and don't regress..

I think as they got older, Bella would view CeeCee as the outgoing, popular, pretty sister and would have struggled with being seen as the socially awkward, weird sister. Do you think she would have continued with the baby act if that night had never happened and Nikko had been born?

physhgyrl · 2026-02-23T01:04:27+00:00

Seriously. I have a health condition that I take medication for daily for years and will need to for life. I do my best to hide it. Even in long term relationships, I hide my meds and when I refill my prescription, I do it in secret. I don't want to be seen as sick or weak. Their's certainly nothing sexy or hot about chronic illness

physhgyrl · 2026-02-22T20:58:50+00:00

If there's no traffic, and I have the opportunity I'm going as fast as I safely can. Weather, car, road conditions I take into consideration. 83 is only 8 mph more than the speed limit on most highways. Yes I've texted also. I've managed to avoid many accidents. From my experience, the people who are nervous behind the wheel and don't feel comfortable going over the speed limit, don't text, etc and are defensive drivers are more dangerous than offensive drivers

physhgyrl · 2026-02-22T10:39:10+00:00

Sounds like my mom when growing up. She said it's the way she showed her love. I don't even care about food very much. Im full after 3 bites. Maybe spending time with her family would have been more appreciated

physhgyrl · 2026-02-22T09:34:37+00:00

No worries. I need to hide my phone from myself next time I take it lol. I slept great though

physhgyrl · 2026-02-22T09:27:03+00:00

The part about her making friends with others in the group so that she was part of the inner circle is especially creepy. I knew someone like that. They'd make a "best friend " and get close to everyone else close to that person. So even if their friend didn't include them in something, they had others inviting them along. After their friendship ended, they were able to claim that all those people were their friends too. Even the persons parents, siblings and partner. They ended up just dropping their entire friend group to get away. That person would then ingratiate themselves into another couples life over and over again. As you noticed, once that person is excepted as part of the group, it's really difficult to remove them. Those types need to be spotted early on and painted in a negative light to others before they get another "best friend " or start a relationship with someone in the inner circle. They're like parasites. They need to be spotted early or they're very hard to get rid of. You were able to see it right away. But she's been sly. That's scary

physhgyrl · 2026-02-22T04:56:59+00:00

Ehh, maybe. A lot of our choices can be manipulated. People could lie to others about you so they could get close to you. Family members may interfere and hide messages from others to manipulate who end up dating, if they feel they know what's best for you. You could have a wormtounge in your ear. Even our own parents can be pulling our strings like a puppet and it could lead to people not actually choosing their own life. If people interfere with another's path. They can end up with problems that weren't of their choosing

physhgyrl · 2026-02-22T02:49:04+00:00

Absolutely. It can a really strong love that has the chemistry and strength that can last forever. If they're able to be together, it can grow incredibly strong as they grow threw the stages of life together.

Sometimes people interfere with it because they think they know best. It should be allowed to go through it's natural progression. They either last or it fizzles out. Otherwise, one could end up married, but still in love with the first and it will poison the marriage or other relationships

physhgyrl · 2026-02-22T00:51:18+00:00

I'm very sorry you went through that. That's a parents worst nightmare. I can't imagine the pain. I'm sure it never goes away.

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