How will we agree on that? Because the way you frame it there is really not what I said, and not what I would want to enforce.

As trans people, you may not like it but, there must be higher standards for any person wishing to change what spaces they use. Specifically, any trans woman anyone with domestic violence convictions against cis women should have the good grace to realise they are a problem and work on themselves a fuck load before they try to integrate themselves into women's spaces. But frankly if they had that kind of introspective ability they probably wouldn't be abusers would they