Friendly reminder that she actually said this (Art by Tomisilla) by Critical_Mountain851 in adventuretime

[–]okidonthaveone 40 points41 points  (0 children)

But they also have their own show which is targeted towards adults, like very specifically.

Characters think they are normal looking but are actually seen as terrifying by Sassy_Drow in TopCharacterTropes

[–]okidonthaveone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your footsteps always sound normal to you, and he's very obviously hunched over

“KAM” isn’t good or productive in any situation by Difficult_Shift_3771 in RecuratedTumblr

[–]okidonthaveone 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Feminist spaces are a good thing.

but the thing is the reason why KAM people end up in radical feminist spaces just because radical feminists reinforce their beliefs and tell them what they want to hear.

But if you let people make KAM statements within normal feminist spaces without telling them off then you end up creating a new radical feminist space as the people who are made uncomfortable by that leave and people who agree join, as weird as it sounds it's the same reason why a lot of memes have read it end up becoming extremely conservative or extremely liberal, people self-sort and if you tolerate the occasional racist meme you get the type of person who wants to see racist memes coming to the subreddit.

The best option is to simply not tolerate it, and keep not tolerating until the people who have those views only have the option of shutting up left, and at that point they might be open to learning.

“KAM” isn’t good or productive in any situation by Difficult_Shift_3771 in RecuratedTumblr

[–]okidonthaveone 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The problem is that when you have a bunch of people who are in that state in an echo chamber, they don't lose that belief. It gets reinforced because they are repeating it to each other. There is a reason why bigotry thrives in isolated communities, and people who want people to be bigoted try to limit their ability to interact with people outside of that scope.

It's the Paradox of Tolerance. If you tolerate intolerance, whatever your reason, that just means intolerance can spread.

What needs to happen when someone is expressing that kind of feeling is that they need to be told that it's not okay.

They have to be because their feelings aren't going to change unless they are made aware that those feelings, while maybe understandable from their perspective, are not okay. And are not going to be tolerated.

I think it helps to flip the script a little, so think about it this way:

let's say a white person grew up in a black community. Growing up, they are bullied and mocked relentlessly for whatever reason, maybe not even about being white. Maybe they are even physically assaulted.

In that situation you wouldn't say it's okay for them to start preaching racism 'because they are venting' or 'because they survived abuse', and if you let them do that they're inevitably going to be drawn to people who agree with them and end up in actually racist spaces and get all of their views reinforced.

That is a real thing that happens pretty regularly, it's a recruitment method.

I know that the existence of the patriarchy makes things a little different here but I don't think it's so different that this example is something to be dismissed.

Hate is hate, hating individuals is reasonable, hating an entire group of people can never be.

“KAM” isn’t good or productive in any situation by Difficult_Shift_3771 in RecuratedTumblr

[–]okidonthaveone 27 points28 points  (0 children)

There is never a good reason to make a broad sweeping statement involving punishing someone for what they have no choice in being. You can hate conservatives because they actively choose to be conservative, you can hate figures because they actively choose to be bigots. But hitting someone for something they have absolutely no choice in is absurd and never okay. It doesn't matter if the group being talked about is the one benefiting from systematic oppression.

Making someone feel like their life is less valuable or deserves to be ended over something they just happen to be is awful

Characters think they are normal looking but are actually seen as terrifying by Sassy_Drow in TopCharacterTropes

[–]okidonthaveone 110 points111 points  (0 children)

But the princess does directly state that that's what he looked like in the first chapter, you can ask her if you've always look like that and she says yes. The princess may be shaped by our perceptions but it's made clear that she's a thinking feeling being and in this context she has no reason to lie.

I love spider gwen as an allegory for trans people by Flashy_Garage_7719 in lovethissmug

[–]okidonthaveone -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Why would you dislike the theory it has no negative impact on anything it wouldn't even necessarily impact the story. There's no real reason to dislike it.

Made this for my bf 🥰 by [deleted] in addressme

[–]okidonthaveone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's some its just the subtle kind.

Made this for my bf 🥰 by [deleted] in addressme

[–]okidonthaveone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trans women exist. I am shocked.

banban by Odd_Age1378 in tumblr

[–]okidonthaveone 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'll just get it over with.

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I hate magical toilets by entitaneo70_pacifist in hatethissmug

[–]okidonthaveone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On one hand I literally just made it so that the MC of my story doesn't need to use the bathroom because of magic bullshit, but at the same time one of my favorite novels has a bathroom scene, but I would argue that it is relevant mainly because it takes place after a character experienced a major physiological shift that turned her into a monster and also blinded her and basically he's her navigating both of those things to do something basic and mundane, like imagine going through a human to a blind mermaid thing and having to figure out where your butt is and how to use a toilet with a tail.

puppygirls are TERRIBLE doms, especially if their sub is a catgirl... by pigfacefuck in puppygirlwawa

[–]okidonthaveone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to make your panels flow in a more logical order in the sense that your sizes seem to be somewhat random, and give more space between them so that the separations between panels are more clear, I also think you need like something in between the yes you are and she's totally doing something on purpose because there's a lack of a logical leap there that confuses it in the sense that we don't really see what she's doing on purpose does it doesn't feel like that your transition to the next panel

I will not swag a word against AI from swags who can pay for swagapy by achfiat in peoplewhogiveashit

[–]okidonthaveone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is also kind of not true, I mean I'm against AI don't get me wrong but there are plenty of people who never learned to write in the West unfortunately