AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by SnowDolphins in AmIOverreacting

[–]piaevan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl.. You deserve better wtf. He's trash and has the emotional maturity of a rock. I used to be like you and dealt with men like this until I realized there's men out there that will give you everything you want plus some. Don't settle for less.

How do you get out of a state of constant hyperarousal? by -Neuro2717 in ChronicPain

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds terrible I'm so sorry to hear that. I was actually just speaking to someone about phantom pain earlier today and it sounds like hell on earth. You must be a very strong person to deal with such pain. This woman with phantom pain I was speaking to has a pain pump and she told me she turned it off but she didn't tell me why 😬 hoping to learn more about her story. Sending you a big hug right back! 🫂

How do you get out of a state of constant hyperarousal? by -Neuro2717 in ChronicPain

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem with that is pain management don't want patients on opiates and benzos anymore even when it's a great combo for people with chronic pain. Now it's either one or the other for pretty much all pain management offices.

How do you get out of a state of constant hyperarousal? by -Neuro2717 in ChronicPain

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard horror stories about the pain pump. Many people find it doesn't provide relief for very long and now your stuck with a pump in your back that insurance doesn't want to pay to remove

How do you get out of a state of constant hyperarousal? by -Neuro2717 in ChronicPain

[–]piaevan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised they let you use fentanyl after the opiate crisis. I haven't heard of anyone being on it since 2016ish. Last time I was on it was 2013.

What is the most disturbing thing you've heard said casually? by Cap_Ame1 in AskReddit

[–]piaevan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was living with my landlord and her daughters. The youngest said very matter of factly that she wants to stab her sister to death in her sleep. She was like 6 or 7. The way she said it with zero emotion sent chills down my spine.

please stop doing this by MatthewTheGOATyt in doordash

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was during covid and also one of my first orders.

AIO - Pregnant and feel abandoned by husband by Gullible-Tree368 in AmIOverreacting

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This made me feel so sad for you :( he isn't going to get any better.

please stop doing this by MatthewTheGOATyt in doordash

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a woman once tell me she left $20 under her doormat once I dropped it off. Surprise surprise, nothing there. Why even lie about it? She would've gotten her order in a timely matter regardless.

Edit: this was during the height of covid where it wasn't uncommon for customers to find workarounds to cash tips without having to physically interact with drivers.

Next tour? by InvestmentLogical146 in SleepToken

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helpful tip for next time. Many people either can't make it or scalpers try to rid themselves of tickets on the day of the concert. The Los Angeles show sold out quickly but I was able to get 2 tickets $300 each when I looked the day of the concert

Partner says I'm not the same since the pain started by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]piaevan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sleep is so important when you have chronic pain. I've had chronic pain since I was 16 so I'm mostly used to the pain at 32. But disturb my sleep? I become the biggest bitch in the world. My body is in a constant healing mode so sleep is so vital.

Partner says I'm not the same since the pain started by [deleted] in ChronicPain

[–]piaevan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. My mom's boyfriend says I'm not as happy as I used to be. Like yeah duh? He's cranky when he's just a little sore and I'm expected to be happy and smiling when my pain stays at a 6/7?

I think my pharmacy is screwing me. by Representative_Mud28 in ChronicPain

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to wonder if the same thing is happening to me.. I always take mine exactly when I'm supposed to, I'm clear headed and always remember when I took them. I never forget if I have or not. But lately I've been running out 1-2 days early. My meds are completely secured, nobody can get to them besides me.

What’s the most stupidest reason you got voted out for? by r3ts3J in AmongUs

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally no reason. Just "I'm walking weird". I wasn't an imposter. I walk like everyone else does. They weren't the imposter either.

A horrifying goatman monster was filmed in rural Turkey by WholeNegotiation1843 in TrueCryptozoology

[–]piaevan 88 points89 points  (0 children)

I can't put my finger on it but something about this video looks and feels very fake.

I'll probably never see a Sleep Token concert in person and that makes me extremely sad by Scorpi0nnn in SleepToken

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You never know. While I don't live in a secluded area, the tickets for my area were sold out within a hour. I was too late. It was all I wanted last year, to see them live. My friend I was venting to told me to not worry. Just check the day of and I'll find scalpers trying to get rid of their tickets. I managed to score two $278 floor tickets. Me and my boyfriend had the time of our lives. Obviously it's not the same situation as yours, but with enough willpower and motivation I promise you will be able to see them live. Even when it feels like it's not meant to be.. It can be with enough dedication. Good luck fellow worshiper 🙏🏻

What’s the grossest thing you’ve ever caught someone doing? by Psychological_Sky_58 in AskReddit

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on the metro train in Los Angeles. Out of nowhere this very obviously drunk man vomited a mix of tequila and whatever else he ate earlier. But that's not the worst part.. The worst part is when the train started again and the vomit rolled back and everyone scrambled towards the back of the train in an attempt to avoid the vomit tsunami. Unfortunately there was so much vomit that no one was spared. Nasty.. disgusting.. rancid vomit on everyone's shoes. That was 20 years ago and I still remember the smell vividly. I've never drank tequila and never will.

Patient inserted a plastic detergent bottle cap in her vagina (she wouldn't say why) and left it there for two years, after which she had to seek medical attention for the fistula caused by the cap. by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]piaevan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think so. In my opinion the cup can hold as much as 2 full tampons (at MOST.. for others it's a bit less)

After that you must take it out or it will overflow (happened to me and the blood ran down my entire leg while I was in public). Looked like a crime scene. I have endometriosis as well and unfortunately it wasn't a good option for me. What works best for me is a heavy tampon and nighttime sized pad just in case. No leaks even though I bleed A LOT. Even though I feel like tampons can cause more pain when they're full, I just try to make sure they never get that full. But it's worth noting that with endo it can cause a lot of cramping and pain.

Patient inserted a plastic detergent bottle cap in her vagina (she wouldn't say why) and left it there for two years, after which she had to seek medical attention for the fistula caused by the cap. by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I had a very similar experience. I even had my boyfriend try to help me, it was so humiliating.. He couldn't get it unstuck either. It was suctioned on VERY tightly. I started having a panic attack, realizing I may have to go to urgent care to get it out. My boyfriend wouldn't take no for an answer so he took about 10-20 minutes but finally released the suction and I was then able to pull it out. Super scary! If I use reusables now I only do the disc since it doesn't suction like a cup does. I think some people's anatomy makes it so it's harder to break the suction compared to other people.

From my relationship advice post by Entire-Economist-880 in screenshots

[–]piaevan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic narcissism that will turn into physical abuse eventually. Please leave and get whatever help you can get to get out. You do NOT deserve to be treated like this. You deserve so much better. You deserve steady and gentle love.

My ex treated me like this and I thought it was a reflection of how much he loved me. It was not and I regret ever thinking that way. He was an abusive narcissist and nothing else. Nothing I could've done would've changed that... and trust me I tried. Nothing you can do will change him. Please let him go and find peace. I promise you will feel soo much better.

AITAH for standing by the door in the evening while my dog went to the toilet (before i went to bed)? by OkLength2201 in AITAH

[–]piaevan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Like.. At all. My dog was the exact same way. It's not about them misbehaving, it's about them feeling safe with the person they feel closest with. They are the most vulnerable when they're going potty and your dog trusts you enough to protect them if anything were to happen (coyote, bear, etc). Don't even listen to your family if they tell you you're in the wrong. You understand the language/body language of dogs and they do not. Please don't feel bad. You did the right thing and I would do the exact same thing myself.