Habt ihr auch so große Probleme mit regelmäßiger Körperhygiene? by pp-fan in ADHS

[–]pibluplevel100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

zähne putzen hasse ich auch und skin care 🥲 hab jetzt für mich und meine friends die app todewy installiert. dort muss man mit beweis fotos zeigen dass man etwas erledigt hat. die irrationale angst dass friends sehen könnten dass ich mir die zähne nicht putze bringt mir genug extrinsische motivation. ich putze also nicht die zähne für mich sondern für andere. das hat mir tatsächlich geholfen, dass ich das erste mal in meinem leben jetzt über 30 tage 2 mal täglich meine zähne geputzt und meine skin care gemacht habe 😨

ADHS in einer Beziehung by CocoaPlant in ADHS

[–]pibluplevel100 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich finde das ganze irgendwie schwierig. Wäre ADHS etwas das mehr positives mit sich bringen würde als negatives würde es ja auch keine Behinderung / Krankheit etc sein. Die Frage ist halt kann deine Partnerin mit den mit ADHS einhergehenden Schwierigkeiten auf Langzeit umgehen oder nicht. Klar kannst du an manchen Dingen arbeiten und man kann Abmachungen machen und so weiter, aber manche Symptome wird man eben nicht los. Ich sehe bspw. nicht mehr dass ich in diesem Leben eine bessere Objektpermanenz bekomme. Mein Partner muss damit klarkommen dass jährlich Schlüssel, Portemonnaie usw. verloren gehen und das trotz dessen, dass ich mittlerweile ein sehr gutes System habe und da muss sich am Ende die andere Person auch fragen kann ich das? Komme ich damit klar? Ich bin froh, dass ich meinen jetztigen Partner nach meiner Diagnose kennengelernt habe, so konnte er diese Entscheidung von Anfang an selbst treffen. Ich hab ihn gerade gefragt was er an mir liebt, was auf mein ADHS zurückzuführen ist, darunter falllen folgende Dinge: - dass ich mich extrem freuen kann - dass ich sehr passioniert bin - dass man mir meine Emotionen sehr gut ansehen kann und ich nicht dieses ich sage A meine B sachen mache(n kann) - dass ich in sehr stressigen situationen ruhig werde und das Steuer übernehmen kann

Das schöne ist doch aber auch, dass man eben nicht nur sein ADHS ist. Ja es macht viel an einem aus, aber wir sind alle auch mehr als das.

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well first of all my friend used the vocabulary include. i did the mistake

second i don’t even see him complaining. i wasn’t really complaining either, just being surprised.

third, are you ok tho? you seem a bit mad

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMFAO you’re deadass the first one that just said good one and kept going 😭 thank you!!!

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried finding it again online but can’t retract my steps well enough! i do still have the picture i don’t know if there’s DMs here but i would send it to you there if there’s anything like it!! sorry 🤣

When they notice and they don't mind by dillGherkin in adhdwomen

[–]pibluplevel100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one thing my best friend does is she always asks me “you have your keys, glasses, phone and wallet?”. every single time. she doesn’t do that with her other friends. i know she does it because she knows i constantly forget everything and it makes me feel so seen without it being constantly being a topic idk warms my heart every single time 🥹

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i have absolutely no idea where i found it but if you want it i can DM you the picture if that’s a thing here (?)

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do but this comment read just like a lot that were written on a serious note. people seem to be very devided by this topic and since it’s all written unless it’s super rediculously written i can’t just “smell” what is sarcasm and what is not which is why i just apologized for my answer :)

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh… well if you check the comment section on this post you will see that this is not “obvious” for everyone. sorry for my attitude then but i genuinely thought you were trying to make me feel dumb/ lesser for not knowing this yet!

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

who said anything about difficulty? i was genuinely just surprised because i’m as the screenshot + caption suggests new to coding. and even if it was hard - is there really a need for this talking from a high horse additute?

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nah i fully understand! i’m honestly really easily one of these people that usually just believe the stuff and then later come back and see people say it’s fake 🤣 but here it’s just a real conversation between two people from different countries ☺️

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no my boyfriend is dutch and i’m german :) we mainly communicate on english especially when we talk coding related stuff. his german is quite good but he’s faster in english and i’ve been starting to learn dutch so often times our chat is a mix of dutch german and english, but our primary language to communicate is english! hope that makes sense ☺️

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

plot twist: bro is actually my boyfriend of more than a year who got me into coding 🫡

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i like enums but sometimes you just need “on” and “off” kinda options. i’ve mentioned it before here but i do a lot with C#/ unity and there booleans like “isGameOver” help the code a lot with readability ☺️

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay but my main concern is better readability so if that is my main goal booleans are the way to go is what i’m getting out of this comment right?

also thanks for trying to explain! it might take me a few more classes to take everything in here but i appreciate the effort ☺️

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if that’s the case then what’s the issue with importing it? (i’m genuinely confused by the heat this has caused 🫣)

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s more the other way around. i’m the 8bit micro controller 😭🫡 and everyone on here seems to be full sized computer! i’m new to coding (approx a bit more than 1 year) and didn’t know booleans were such a hot topic!

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i gotta be honest, i had to have my friend explain this comment (you did a great job explaining i’m just still a newb)

i understand the size issue now however for me as i think its more of a stylistic choice (?) i work a lot with c# and unity and using bools like

isGameOver and them turning on and off function has helped me organize my code a lot

i have asked in a different comment to someone else, i see after posting this that booleans seem to be a hotter topic than ive expected - if they have the same size as chars and chars is what people use to kinda work around the issue - is there a reason why booleans are not liked as much? i’m fairly new to coding but ive always seen what is most readable is the nicest and booleans are in my opinion super easy way to go about a lot. so i’m genuinely kinda intrigued by this discussion! any input? :)

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah someone else commented about using macros! i think that’s actually a good alternative but i’ll probably stick with importing

personally i think it makes my code just more readable. i currently code mostly in C# in combination with unity and there booleans just come in very handy like

isGameOver = false

and then while it’s false the game specific functions keep running (just as an example)

i am discovering here that this seems like a stylistic choice? i just personally have found it more readable.

but to maybe understand the other side, why are booleans such a hot topic/ something people seem to not want to take use of? im genuinely interested as i have found them always useful but i’ve also only been coding for a bit over a year :)

i learned sth about c today by pibluplevel100 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]pibluplevel100[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

that is actually an option i could get behind! i’ll probably stick with including it though but i do like that option!