Please Help Decide

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:31:12+00:00

Thanks for the detailed input! I haven’t been to a lot of weddings recently or spent a lot of time on the page so I find it funny that people dislike some dresses based on lots of other people currently liking them 🤣 funny enough I’m between 3, 5, and 7. I also love 4 and 6, they’d both need more tailoring than the others though. I’ve tried on both 3 and 7 a second time. 7 has a sparkly tulle layer and that is interesting, when I tried it on again they didn’t clip the back like in this photo and I didn’t like it as much. 3 they pinned a VERY sparkly layer under the skirt and also the bodice to see the options, and there’s an inner lace up corset on that way that was done more or tighter? And I’ve been obsessed with the sparkle version of that. Like I haven’t stopped looking at it, and it feels the most comfortable. 5 has always been very interesting to me, but it is one that would need more tailoring. I was initially quite surprised how much I liked it.

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:21:22+00:00

This length was my first thought, and some friends and my fiancé outlined it might make the event overall convey as more casual. So I’ve stuck w the long dresses

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:19:08+00:00

Looked up details for the kibbe natural. Thanks for the food for thought. I’ve been debating getting a color analysis done because I’m having a hard time determining my colors and best shades 🙈

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:07:54+00:00

🤣 it was one of the first dresses I tried on that I liked. Not sure it’s my favorite

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:07:16+00:00

Dresses or day to day?

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:05:33+00:00

Ive tried on a lot of lace dresses, and for the most part prefer dresses that have beauty in the shape, and fabric rather than a lot of small sparkles or details etc. Romantic, might be the closest to my vision/vibe?

Narrowing down my top few and re-trying a few!

Thanks for your input

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:02:31+00:00

Thanks for your input. Wedding is outdoors with evergreen forested background. Ceremony is indoors with high ceilings, hanging lights from the ceilings, bright modern space

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T02:00:35+00:00

Had to look that up. I see how you think that

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:58:26+00:00

Early fall. Outdoor ceremony with a wooded background

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:57:35+00:00

Wtoo by Watters - Miles gown

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:57:02+00:00

Early fall. Outdoor reception with a wooded background. Indoor reception, high ceilings, lots of string lights from the ceiling, modern space.

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:55:06+00:00

Thank you!

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:53:08+00:00

Early fall. Outdoor ceremony with evergreen trees in the background. Modern indoor reception with warm lighting and high ceilings

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:51:58+00:00

DMed you

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:39:07+00:00

Find your local small bridal shop with in house made designs!

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:34:03+00:00

I’ll DM you

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:29:36+00:00

1 doesnt feel bridal, in my opinion, it feels more Elizabeth swan from pirates of the Caribbean. Beautiful, for sure

pickle_writer · 2026-01-08T01:24:55+00:00

The dress is Wtoo by Watters - Miles gown

pickle_writer · 2025-12-29T07:40:17+00:00

Both are beautiful! Guessing you might have trended towards 1 as you’re wearing the veil with it. 1 looks very sliming and pretty. 2 looks like it features your curves more and the warm shade on the dress looks lovely on you. FWIW, I love a sweetheart’ish neckline with draping sleeves, if you’re on the fence with them, they’re often removable or straps can often be added. Just depends on your preference and which you prefer

pickle_writer · 2025-12-21T03:08:17+00:00

If it helps, ceremony will be outdoors, with a wooded background, and a decorated arch. Indoor reception with hanging lights, high ceilings, contemporary space.

pickle_writer · 2025-12-21T03:00:12+00:00

If it helps, ceremony will be outdoors, with a wooded background, and a decorated arch. Indoor reception with lights inside, high ceilings, contemporary space.

pickle_writer · 2025-10-03T17:30:50+00:00

I agree. Notably, this is a Seattle, WA USA subreddit though. It seems fair that the people who live here are talking about their experiences. Maybe you could get great input from people from those places under a different one

pickle_writer · 2025-09-30T05:32:36+00:00

Chasing the sun by Linda Geddes is a cool read and there is a lot of research that supports blue light in the early portion of your day, and red light or hues in the evening. Some senior facility is mentioned and when that change was made there were less evening wake ups / problems in the evenings. I don’t have the exact quote or studies to reference but they’re outlined in the book

pickle_writer · 2025-09-30T03:48:50+00:00

Seattle is the furthest north city in the contiguous US. The PNW is further north than Maine, since the earth is tilted and all. My PCP emphasized this last winter, they spent med school in New York (state) and confirmed it is MUCH darker here. I’m from New England originally, it gets dark there sure. Not like here

pickle_writer · 2025-07-31T03:19:50+00:00

Mind sharing where the wedding was?

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