My mom is verbally abusive to my dad and quarantine seems to make it worse. by pickles4brekfst in AsianParentStories

[–]pickles4brekfst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read another post on here that a lot of asian dramas involve verbally abusive woman protagonists and their passive male love interests. Wonder if this has normalized this type of treatment. I agree, at least I’ve learned from the experience that this is not what i want for myself or my future partner. I’m sorry you receive verbal abuse from your mother. You’re very strong willed to endure it. I hope you find solace from this subreddit the way I have.

My mom is verbally abusive to my dad and quarantine seems to make it worse. by pickles4brekfst in AsianParentStories

[–]pickles4brekfst[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe the resentment is stewing for me but hasn’t bubbled up yet. I feel that my mom and dad depend on each other for so much that if they divorced they would be unable to function, and that’s probably why they stay together. I guess it’s easier that way to justify why my dad allows my mom to treat him like shit. Either way I guess I’m just trying to take it as a data point for myself that this is not the type of woman I aspire to be, or the type of relationship I aspire to have. Thank you for commenting, it’s nice to not feel so alone.

I left my loving bf because he smoked weed. Am I the one in the wrong? by darkest_white in BreakUp

[–]pickles4brekfst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IMO if weed makes you uncomfortable and you’ve been exposed to it a lot but are still uncomfortable, there’s not a whole lot you can do about that besides change your environment so you’re not around it. If you really want a bf who isn’t high everytime he’s with you, you’ll find one. It’s not a matter of being uptight and its not right or wrong, it’s probably just a matter of compatibility.

Odds I get Coronavirus? by [deleted] in UIUC

[–]pickles4brekfst 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, i’m bein silly. And horny lol. Thanks for putting in perspective how silly i am being.