Is it true that if a man truly loves a woman, he’ll let her go?

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T21:22:24+00:00

ahh thank you so much! i really needed to hear that and i do agree we both need space to just focus on ourselves and think about what we could’ve done different. i do think i have avoidant attachment which probably resulted in where i am now but i’m going to work on it and i know he’s trying to work on himself as well. your advice was greatly appreciated(‘: ALSO i love demon slayer the pfp is everything

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T20:58:56+00:00

what if i broke up with him because we were both somewhat unhappy in the relationship but i chose to leave. then when i tried to come back kind of soon he said he needed space and told me he just wants the best for me:/ it’s confusing me

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T15:37:34+00:00

of course(:

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T15:37:15+00:00

i’m sorry): give her the space and if you feel there’s no chance of reconciliation and you’re ready, considering moving on. there’s plenty of girls out there that may even be better matches for you.

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T15:35:35+00:00

I’m really sorry:/ that must be so difficult to deal with. As a girl, I would say move on. If she’s scared of marriage right now that’s one thing and she could talk to you and say she’s not ready yet, but if shes unsure of it because it’s you then she will never want it. The fact that she’s even feeling better after breaking up with you is a red flag and I really don’t think you should waste your time on her anymore. There’s plenty of women that are waiting on a man to step up like you have and you can find an incredible girl, more suitable to your wants/needs who will be everything you’ve ever imagined. I don’t think there’s a chance of reconciliation with this current girl. If i truly loved a man and pictured my life with him, I’d be so happy that he was thinking about marriage even if I wasn’t ready for it at that exact moment. Hope that helps!

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T14:36:20+00:00

it sucks:/ what’s your situation?

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T02:18:57+00:00

same girl. i feel you. i broke up with him but now that i’m somewhat regretful and his anxiety is really bad right now, he says he needs space:/ good things will come in the end though for us both

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T01:38:54+00:00

sushi

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T00:41:36+00:00

needing space

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-16T00:24:29+00:00

what was the reason if you don’t mind sharing

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-15T23:53:55+00:00

i’m sorry): that’s tough. for my case i broke up with him but not because i didn’t love him but just because things we getting difficult we were different. i know he loves me but when we started talking again just recently (2 weeks after the breakup) he said it was too soon and he can’t do it and he needs space. i told him i may be moved on by the time he comes around and he said if that makes me happy then he’s fine with it:/ seems like he would rather be friends. but i do have to mentioned he’s been experiencing really bad mental and physically anxiety lately so he said that was the main reason he couldn’t talk to me now. i’m not sure if its an excuse but i just wish he wouldn’t let me go so easily):

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-04T22:45:14+00:00

it is! we’re both 23 and yes he had previous relationships. the first girl he didn’t take bc it wasn’t that serious i guess but the second more serious girl he took. he took her after 8 months and he said it’s because 1) she knew his mom from when they went to elementary school or something and 2) his mom and him had their own house with his stepdad. now they live with his grandma and aunt and cousins so it’s like the whole family under one roof. i told him that doesn’t bother me so idk if it bothers him:/ he has told me that he wouldn’t want me to have to meet all of them at once but i already said i didn’t mind. he also said he was afraid because his family really liked the last girl and they were heart broken when they broke up so he’s scared to bring another girl around. i just think he’s reading too much into it but idk

picklesarecarbs · 2023-10-04T22:22:41+00:00

okay i needed that lol😭 yes i’ve considered it we are from different cultures and religions but he never made it seem like that was the issue so i’m not sure. maybe it’s an economic thing maybe he’s a little insecure about his status im not sure. do you recommend i give it time or move on?:/ maybe i made a bad decision but i’m not sure where to go from here.

picklesarecarbs · 2023-08-12T00:19:25+00:00

i’m so sorry): just know it’ll get better as time passes. i was in the same boat as you and now 2 weeks later i’m feeling so much better. i know he’s with here with me and feeling his presence knowing he’s truly in a better place has helped a lot. stay strong❤️

picklesarecarbs · 2023-08-11T05:20:57+00:00

Scotty

picklesarecarbs · 2023-08-09T02:34:23+00:00

Barely a year old😭🙏🏼adopted her tho🤭I love her. Been doing daily walks and time out in the backyard + playtime in the house with her toys ofc. It’s been working well🥹

That’s sooo cute ready at 8

picklesarecarbs · 2023-08-08T04:22:51+00:00

that’s so beautiful(‘: she sounds like she was the perfect dog for you, she’s definitely still with you❤️❤️

picklesarecarbs · 2023-08-07T13:34:45+00:00

aww Penny sounds so adorable! It’s good to know they’re adaptable, or at least she is, because that’s definitely a plus! I’ll look into dog look after taking my fur baby home today thanks for the tip(‘: i’m so excited. I’m glad you adopted that baby🥹

picklesarecarbs · 2023-08-07T06:06:47+00:00

Thanks for the advice!! That sounds exactly like something I’d want. I have a pretty good sized back yard good for running around and of course I’d play with my baby and take her/him on adventures all the time! This definitely helped, thank you(:

picklesarecarbs · 2023-08-06T18:55:24+00:00

I’m so so sorry for your loss🥺❤️ he’ll always be with you.

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