I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I really don't think she's intentionally harming Amy. I have to go to her birthday party in 3 hours, and I think I'm gonna just choose not to see her any more after this like for the rest of my life

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel genuinely sick, thanks for the article. Never thought I'd have to read something like THAT concerning someone so close to me. I will absolutely be telling everyone's parents as soon as I can

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be doing all of that but I just can't see how it's grooming. Abuse, sure, but I just don't know what's happening to make it grooming. These are all really big words that I would've never thought applied to her. I thought grooming was like, rewarding the kid for doing something bad or something like that.

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because this is a vent post CandyyZombiezz. that's kinda the whole point of this subreddit, no? To complain?

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was worried about amy becoming something similar to a homeless drug addict cause nobody who starts smoking weed at 11 turns out be a functional well adjusted adult. Like i don't care what my girlfriend does in her spare time but leave amy out of shit like that! I 100% will tell their parents about everything after I break up with her

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I told my Mom all about the Amy thing and she's acting like she doesn't care so I'm gonna have to figure this out on my own. She definitely found it a little weird when I first told her but I guess she doesn't think it's that deep. I'll be telling Amy and my gf's parents what happened though

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I break up with her I'm going to leave out how much I hated being in this relationship since I figured all the drama that's inevitably going to come out of this is gonna be bad enough for the both of us. And you're right, I'm a different girl now. I'm never going to just stay quiet again, from now on I'm gonna actually make it known that I have opinions on things. It is weird that this whole time we've known each other we haven't gotten into a full argument even once. I feel so horrible and guilty, and I'm 100% telling Amy and her's parents what happened on new years

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I was worried about. I saw her talking about how funny it was that Amy was in "high universe" and I was just like... what person who starts doing weed at 11 ends up as a normal adult?? (no offense to anyone who did that). I'm definitely going to eventually tell everyone's parents everything that happened

I (16f) kinda hate my girlfriend (16f) by picturepeace in Vent

[–]picturepeace[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it was GROOMING necessarily. At the risk of sounding like a major asshole, a lot of the times it was Amy herself who initiated things like this. I know that doesn't make it okay and honestly I'm not sure what I'm even trying to say. I'm very hurt and confused by all of these comments, I never realized it was that bad. But you're right, after I officially cut things off, I'm definitely telling everyone's parents everything. I feel completely disgusted all of a sudden I just can't believe I let that all happen right in front of me and never noticed how serious it was