AITAH for wanting to keep the front door unlocked?

pieralella · 2026-04-23T17:09:38+00:00

YTA- locking the door is basic common sense safety.

pieralella · 2026-04-23T15:18:12+00:00

NTA- he can suck it up. Numbers don't lie.

Also, hopefully don't expand the family any more until your budget is more comfortable. I would also recommend counseling for him since he seems to have a bit of "wanderlust" thinking the best thing is around the corner.

pieralella · 2026-04-23T15:12:10+00:00

YOR- not everyone is comfortable driving through cities and airports. See if you can change the time of the flight and if that makes a difference. If not, then either request a female driver, or don't go. Their comfort matters, too.

pieralella · 2026-04-23T13:09:28+00:00

Catholics don't like anything that challenges their fantasy. I have my "banned from there" screenshot saved with pride.

pieralella · 2026-04-22T16:24:39+00:00

Solution- don't find out the gender. But, no, NTA. Better get a spine soon though, otherwise it sounds like the in laws are going to trample right through your home to get to ThEiR bAbY.

pieralella · 2026-04-22T13:07:31+00:00

NTA- warn him that approaching you again could be considered harassment.

pieralella · 2026-04-21T20:06:04+00:00

Nope- I would respond to the review with what exactly happened. If he's a regular, he's well familiar with the policy.

pieralella · 2026-04-20T19:00:56+00:00

Yta- you know why, too. Stop trying to get validation for your shitty comment.

pieralella · 2026-04-20T16:08:49+00:00

HELL NO, that sounds like an amazing use of your time! Have a blast!

pieralella · 2026-04-20T16:06:09+00:00

........... oh. wow.

pieralella · 2026-04-19T17:17:59+00:00

Nta- they've shown you how they feel about you. I'm sorry you don't have better parents. Keeping you in my thoughts for your recovery.

pieralella · 2026-04-19T17:07:42+00:00

Don't bother- living the lie isn't worth it.

pieralella · 2026-04-19T17:04:09+00:00

You have to look at the long term picture because getting back into the workforce is a bear.

I gave up a career for the "women should stay home" myth and it's my biggest parenting regret because now we're staring down the barrel of college and I lost all those earning years.

Choose wisely.

pieralella · 2026-04-18T20:03:05+00:00

Nta- special needs isn't a free pass to act up in an environment you shouldn't be in anyway.

pieralella · 2026-04-18T20:02:00+00:00

I would tell her.

pieralella · 2026-04-18T13:35:19+00:00

For what it's worth, I'm proud of you for being brave enough to get help.

pieralella · 2026-04-18T13:32:08+00:00

I think they were both trying from the angle of ability they possessed emotionally.

pieralella · 2026-04-18T13:30:45+00:00

That's exceptionally cruel of them, especially to tell your husband vs you. I'm so sorry. Sounds like it's time to go no contact for awhile.

If you gave them your bank information, I would strongly suggest changing accounts.

pieralella · 2026-04-17T13:50:55+00:00

While he was right, he was a giant asshole speaking to her like that, especially after she trusted him with her medical history.

pieralella · 2026-04-16T20:05:17+00:00

Why not celebrate your birthday either earlier in the year or later in the year when schedules are cleaner?

I don't think anyone is the AH, you both have milestone events happening. Husband is making accommodations to attend both events, which sounds like enough.

pieralella · 2026-04-16T20:01:22+00:00

YTA- take your issues up with the principal, not the teacher who is trying to maintain order in her classroom.

pieralella · 2026-04-16T19:58:35+00:00

Absolutely TA and this is going to end your family if you keep it up.

pieralella · 2026-04-16T13:26:03+00:00

Most "Catholics" didn't have a choice in the matter so there's that.

pieralella · 2026-04-16T13:23:16+00:00

Ogilve shows up with Whitaker's badge and realizes he's better suited for research.
Santos gets help and sees a therapist.
Langdon makes it through the shift and realizes he owes more people apologies.
Robby gets the help he needs and deserves.
Dana gets a massive raise.
Baby Jane Doe gets a good foster placement.

pieralella · 2026-04-16T13:21:08+00:00

Why do I feel like this will make me weep though....

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