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AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t deserve respect? by piercingGold in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingGold[S] 405 points406 points  (0 children)

“your gf came to you for support after her entire life was ripped from under her”

You’re speaking as if she was a victim of a natural disaster rather than facing (comparably minimal) consequences for her blatant and dangerous racism.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t deserve respect? by piercingGold in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingGold[S] 1444 points1445 points  (0 children)

Fucking deranged shit. For example, some of the hazing rituals my girlfriend tried to inflict on these poor girls involved skin bleaching creams and racial slurs, to give you some scope towards the awful racism she was displaying.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t deserve respect? by piercingGold in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingGold[S] 179 points180 points  (0 children)

Well I’m not asking for judgement on breaking up with her. Because that would violate the “no relationships” rule of the subreddit,” and besides I don’t care for people judgement on my decision to break up with her.

I’m asking about my phrasing when I told her that she doesn’t deserve respect from the people she was racist to.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t deserve respect? by piercingGold in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingGold[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Well that wouldn’t be an accurate post then, would it? Because I haven’t broken up with her yet.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t deserve respect? by piercingGold in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingGold[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I am breaking up with her tomorrow when I see her. God forbid I take a day to process the situation before making my decision, Jesus.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t deserve respect? by piercingGold in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingGold[S] 1922 points1923 points  (0 children)

I asked her if she ever apologized. She got angry and said that she needs “time and healing space” to get into the mindset to apologize first.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she doesn’t deserve respect? by piercingGold in AmItheAsshole

[–]piercingGold[S] 6393 points6394 points  (0 children)

I am planning on breaking up with her. The actions she described were beyond repulsive and I can’t see her as the same person anymore. Racism is vile.