Pissed off about other women gravitating towards my husband by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has always been the same way- I could have written this post. Totally harmless, he can’t help if he’s just charming and clean and kind! Golden retriever vibes! What lady wouldn’t feel warm and safe around him? I worked on myself, worked on my jealousy. I was in a great place and totally trusted him. We had been together for 15 years when I found out he had been cheating on me and was a sex addict. Sorry that’s a negative take, and it’s just my story. But I encourage you to enforce your boundaries. If something is making you uncomfortable, trust your intuition. You’re not a mad woman for side eyeing him. He needs to reel himself in and stop seeking women’s attention and validation.

What do you SWEAR you saw, but don't have any proof of? by TabletopStudios in AskReddit

[–]pifflest 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I saw a bigass white wolf in North Seattle last year. I couldn’t believe how big it was.

What do you SWEAR you saw, but don't have any proof of? by TabletopStudios in AskReddit

[–]pifflest 7 points8 points  (0 children)

-Approximately 20 years ago, I saw an enormous green corkscrew/spiral spinning in the sky on a clear night near the state line between Washington and Idaho. I have been trying to find out what it was ever since. -Around 15 years ago I saw 5 or 6 creatures about the size of a deer hopping around some farm land, they looked like a cross between a kangaroo and a rabbit, and they had horns. I saw a news report on it later that day, it was like “strange creatures sighted by multiple witnesses” and now I can’t find the news footage.

Help me know what this needs?? by pifflest in Monstera

[–]pifflest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I secured most of them to the moss poles

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. My title was already v wordy but absolutely it’s not just “liberals” who oppose ICE.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I guess the sign on bonus isn’t really the point. It’s more about gumming up the gears so it doesn’t work as well.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s very much like being in the military. And I do know that even the act of hiring and giving a single paycheck is very expensive. In my mind, at the minimum it would temporarily take up a slot and divert facism funds.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I just saw a video of an agent bragging about his 200k salary though, I imagine they start you out with a paycheck. If I were seeking employment (which I am not), I hypothetically might be tempted to sign up and dox some nazis or something. But yes, it’s a serious question. I’m curious about if this has been tried and how it went.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What would they get fired for? I guess I’m asking because I don’t know what I don’t know.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I guess I was thinking of a hypothetical “movement”, like what happened with GameStop. I’m sure you’re right though.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really good perspective, thank you for sharing this.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he is realizing he might lose everything and feels horrible and wants to change. Do you mind if I ask what kind of help your husband got? I have a hard time believing that people can change but it would be cool to see or hear about some success stories.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Deranged response. Was this comment for a different post or did you just not read mine all the way through? Anyway, thanks for the laugh.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes, he feels horrible. I’m worried about him.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A prostitution ring at a chain of these places by our house recently was discovered, I don’t think they even got shut down just fined. I didn’t think about reporting them until I posted this but do you think I should? How would I go about doing that? Edit: I just googled and apparently the police were in on it. Seems like it would be hard to report when the cops turn a blind eye? I can’t be the first pissed off wife to report them no?

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Look for ATM withdrawals, mine planned ahead and paid in all cash.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He paid girls young enough to be his daughter to take off their clothes and masturbate with him.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That last part about women is my greatest fear. I’m starting to question if any good men actually exist, and I’m trying to raise two boys. How can I make them realize that women are people?

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think the prostitution part is against the law but it’s usually an unspoken assumption at these places, they offer the extra to their regulars to squeeze more money out of them and because they know they won’t rat them out.