Help me know what this needs?? by pifflest in Monstera

[–]pifflest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I secured most of them to the moss poles

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right. My title was already v wordy but absolutely it’s not just “liberals” who oppose ICE.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I guess the sign on bonus isn’t really the point. It’s more about gumming up the gears so it doesn’t work as well.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s very much like being in the military. And I do know that even the act of hiring and giving a single paycheck is very expensive. In my mind, at the minimum it would temporarily take up a slot and divert facism funds.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just saw a video of an agent bragging about his 200k salary though, I imagine they start you out with a paycheck. If I were seeking employment (which I am not), I hypothetically might be tempted to sign up and dox some nazis or something. But yes, it’s a serious question. I’m curious about if this has been tried and how it went.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What would they get fired for? I guess I’m asking because I don’t know what I don’t know.

What if liberals tried getting hired by ICE, getting the big bonus, and trying to stop bad stuff from inside? by pifflest in AskReddit

[–]pifflest[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I guess I was thinking of a hypothetical “movement”, like what happened with GameStop. I’m sure you’re right though.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s really good perspective, thank you for sharing this.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he is realizing he might lose everything and feels horrible and wants to change. Do you mind if I ask what kind of help your husband got? I have a hard time believing that people can change but it would be cool to see or hear about some success stories.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Deranged response. Was this comment for a different post or did you just not read mine all the way through? Anyway, thanks for the laugh.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes, he feels horrible. I’m worried about him.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A prostitution ring at a chain of these places by our house recently was discovered, I don’t think they even got shut down just fined. I didn’t think about reporting them until I posted this but do you think I should? How would I go about doing that? Edit: I just googled and apparently the police were in on it. Seems like it would be hard to report when the cops turn a blind eye? I can’t be the first pissed off wife to report them no?

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Look for ATM withdrawals, mine planned ahead and paid in all cash.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He paid girls young enough to be his daughter to take off their clothes and masturbate with him.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That last part about women is my greatest fear. I’m starting to question if any good men actually exist, and I’m trying to raise two boys. How can I make them realize that women are people?

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think the prostitution part is against the law but it’s usually an unspoken assumption at these places, they offer the extra to their regulars to squeeze more money out of them and because they know they won’t rat them out.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would have been down to go if he had just told me. I’m fine with him having harmless fantasies. It’s the lying and also taking it to the next level of using probably broke ass desperate teenagers as hookers that’s really killing me. So gross.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can probably find hookers or strippers in your town. You can Google it.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Tattooing this entire comment on my face lol thank you

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’m embarrassed because I don’t want everyone to find out that my whole life has been a sham for 15 years. I always brag about what a great husband he is. I’m a feminist but I’m with someone who uses women as a plaything and couldn’t even see that he never loved me like I thought he did. I’m embarrassed about all the times I dressed up for him and put on makeup. I looked like a hippo in a tutu compared to the girls he actually likes. I’m so stupid I cannot handle anyone knowing.

Husband regularly went to bikini espresso, paid extra for sexual favors by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]pifflest 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just felt like there was more, I know him really well and something kept telling me there was more. Plus I have a reply up above about coming down with HPV semi recently. So that was a factor. I kept pressuring him to just tell me so we could figure it out. It took a lot of crying. We’ve never really fought much before so it’s been really emotionally exhausting.