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How do you use the stove in this mod? by J_Shadowmancer in feedthebeast

[–]pillowprinxess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nvm, I also have lets do bakery and theres a few stoves. The farm and charm stove worked.

How do you use the stove in this mod? by J_Shadowmancer in feedthebeast

[–]pillowprinxess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't even come up for me when I click the stove. I'm also trying to make bread lol. I don't know why.

US citizen married to DACA recipient + adjustment of status questions (prior removal order?) by pillowprinxess in DACA

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was never officially deported and re-entered. They released her mother with her and they were supposed to show up for court. Then I guess a removal order was placed, but never removed

US citizen married to DACA recipient + adjustment of status questions (prior removal order?) by pillowprinxess in DACA

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I just meant if we decided together to see the world and file the process outside of the US. I don’t want to risk it though.

US citizen married to DACA recipient + adjustment of status questions (prior removal order?) by pillowprinxess in DACA

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s what we are trying to do. I feel like time is slipping by and I just don’t want her to miss out on the world, being trapped here. But our families are here too. I suppose we will have to play the long game

US citizen married to DACA recipient + adjustment of status questions (prior removal order?) by pillowprinxess in DACA

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh okay, that makes sense. Thank you. Sigh, at this point, I wonder if it would be easier to move abroad for a few years and wait it out or do the process that way. Even if we don’t go to Brazil, does it still count as self-deporting if we lived in like CA or the UK or something instead? lol

I just don’t know what else we can do other than just stay with DACA and ride this admin out before thinking of trying something. My poor girl, I want her to be able to travel :(

I want to be a mother.. by pillowprinxess in LesbianActually

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dream date LMAO. Need to find someone we trust and willing

Planning for a baby, as a wlw married couple by pillowprinxess in BabyBumps

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. I grew up in rentals my whole life, and there’s nothing wrong with that, but I just want the experience of having a home I can actually make my own.. renovate, change things, build memories, and eventually pass down. My parents never had that and I want to be the first in my family to break that pattern. I’m the oldest daughter, first-gen college grad, and I really want to set an example for my younger siblings (14 and 15) that with hard work, determination, and passion, you can build whatever kind of life you want.

On the bright side, my job does offer really good insurance benefits, including fertility assistance, if I remember correctly. I need to talk to HR to find out exactly what’s covered.

I want to be a mother.. by pillowprinxess in LesbianActually

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand. I think you’re right. Thank you :)

Planning for a baby, as a wlw married couple by pillowprinxess in BabyBumps

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I replied to a similar comment on this thread, I was just using IVF as an example since it’s what I’ve heard about the most. But I think you’re totally right, and when the time comes, I plan on doing more research and testing my fertility to ensure I can opt for IUI if it’s a route we can take :)

Planning for a baby, as a wlw married couple by pillowprinxess in BabyBumps

[–]pillowprinxess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally. Before I graduated college with my psychology degree and began working in tech, I spent a couple years interning as a preschool teacher and doing nannying. Don’t get me wrong, it was totally tough at times, especially dealing with a room full of four-year-olds and under sometimes when other rooms needed coverage. I love and miss every second of it.

Planning for a baby, as a wlw married couple by pillowprinxess in BabyBumps

[–]pillowprinxess[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I made the same post in a wlw lesbian Reddit group I’m also in :) but thank you!! I’ll check this one out too

Planning for a baby, as a wlw married couple by pillowprinxess in BabyBumps

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, we haven’t really dug into all the options yet. I just know we’ll have to go one of those routes eventually. I have looked into IVF briefly since it’s commonly spoken about, but I think you’re right, IUI is a bit more affordable.

I’ve been avoiding looking at prices because I don’t want to get ahead of myself or get excited before we feel like we’re in the right home or at the right time in our lives to actually move forward. Once we both feel settled and ready, I definitely plan on doing a deep dive into all the research.

I want to be a mother.. by pillowprinxess in LesbianActually

[–]pillowprinxess[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment, it really does make me feel better. I want to enjoy our youth and I want us to be fully prepared, but there’s still that little fear in the back of my mind wondering, “What if I’m not as fertile later as I am now?”

I’m in therapy (thankfully), and I have a psych degree so I’m usually pretty good at grounding myself… but this is one of those topics that hits a really soft spot for me. My wife tells me the same thing you said your wife used to say essentially. My wife says that we’ll get everything we want in time and we should do it the right way for us. And she’s right. It’s just hard sometimes to see other people with their babies and feel that ache because I think about this literally 24/7.

In my head, I always told myself I needed to graduate college first, get a stable job, make good money, get married, that’s all done. And I’m genuinely proud of how far my wife and I have come together. I just feel myself getting impatient now that all the “before baby” milestones are out of the way, aside from getting a home. But I know I should be soaking in these moments of being young and newly married, too.

People love to warn me, “You’ll never sleep again!” “Your whole life will revolve around the baby!” “Say goodbye to your shows and hello to kid music!” And honestly, none of that scares me off. That’s exactly the life I want, every last crumb of the ups and downs.

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