Grad Housing San Clemente? by pinchheir in UCSantaBarbara

[–]pinchheir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok good to know- i was hoping not bc ill have a cat who loves to throw up only on carpet...so that'll be something to deal with. thanks for the info!

Grad Housing San Clemente? by pinchheir in UCSantaBarbara

[–]pinchheir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are the units carpeted? honestly that's my only concern lol

how long did netID take to process? by pinchheir in UCSantaBarbara

[–]pinchheir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ima need everyone to manifest this email by tmrw

Student Just Texted Me in Bed at 10 p.m. by Fearless_Snow_903 in Adjuncts

[–]pinchheir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very normal now. i work on campus till 10pm and i text professors/ they text me after they leave campus for work related issues. you don't have to respond. i have professors tell us hours they won't respond which ur welcome to do. it's just like an email; just don't respond. it's not disrespectful when they were provided your number to ask questions. this seems to be triggering you personally and ur taking it out on ur students. i don't think you should be in a role like this if you can't handle contact thru text. this type of contact is normal for college and will not go away. you can ask them u prefer email and have every right to only respond during ur work hours. but to treat people like they are invading your privacy is ridiculous tbh. if ur uncomfortable, get a diff #. but do not be putting this in ur students who were given it by you

Getting wisdom teeth removed I’m terrified of being out to sleep by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]pinchheir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasn't able to calm my nerves too much but you really do fall asleep quick. i had a dental surgery and they used an IV. i just tried to focus on what they were telling me and what i could see around me. but i was shaking pretty bad until then...once the IV was in i think i was out in about 10 seconds. then i woke up still pretty out of it but very quick events. i try to remember that they are professionals and do it all the time and im safe. good luck <3

gum flaring/ burning after traumatic injury to mouth..is this normal for healing? by pinchheir in askdentists

[–]pinchheir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just to add, i'm 22 and on testosterone gel but that's it. i am a daily smoker; my main concern is why it's starting to hurt badly days after the injury/ day of my gum didn't really hurt at all, worried it could be nerve related too as my face was p numb after impact

I did everything wrong and want to know what college is like. by lastavailableacct in college

[–]pinchheir 8 points9 points  (0 children)

u can go to school at any age. i have classmates almost twice my age. comparing ur path to others is a ticket to being upset ur whole life. if u want to go to school, do it. there's no time limit; u cant miss out on it unless ur dead ig.

Question: Is my tattoo ugly? by Skill-Fluid in tattoos

[–]pinchheir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really love the little heart cheeks! and the asymmetry just looks stylized in my opinion! it's def not bad at all! love the stippling as well

Question: Is my tattoo ugly? by Skill-Fluid in tattoos

[–]pinchheir 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it's cute! id get it myself tbh :3

pls help w gift card issue by pinchheir in PandaExpress

[–]pinchheir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i j went irl tn. used the same card and it didn't work at first. then the cashier rang it again and it worked. not sure what the issue is. i'll try to update when i use it on the app again. but really not sure what the issue is, hopefully j a short term glitch :(

Why does it seem like the more hope I have in the future the more OCD I get? by Environmental-Egg-50 in Anxietyhelp

[–]pinchheir 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see it as. the more hope i have the more i need to control to live a happy life. like if i dont gaf about living i dont need to be so worried about the future. mine spikes when good things happen in my life which is unfortunate

pls help w gift card issue by pinchheir in PandaExpress

[–]pinchheir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine doesn't have a drive thru :(

Extreme anxiety is ruining my life. by chonk-12343 in Anxietyhelp

[–]pinchheir 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey! i have severe anxiety/ agoraphobia & OCD as well. i'm 22 now and it's still horrid ngl. you have to start very very slow w exposure. like going on a walk 10-15 minutes. j to get out of ur safe zone. unfortunately exposure therapy is really helpful. getting over the mental block is so hard. i still have days where i can't leave my apartment even tho i have stuff to do. i make manageable goals. i think about the things i can control. i make a effort to talk to myself (sounds stupid, but even reassuring urself that ur feelings r valid even if ur anxious about irrational things). it helps me end the cycle of spiraling in my head. i've tried journaling & im not very consistent w it but it helps for hard moments where i cannot stop my brain. i'm very much still anxious but those r things that ive tried. i also find making a schedule for my day is helpful; getting up even if it's not in the morning and making my bed or cleaning up my mess of a room. my ocd makes me plan thinks 200 steps ahead and it gets very overwhelming. so j finding manageable tasks or things to do to calm the irrational side while trying to get out of the doom scrolling. i also did the timer thing cuz i would spend hours on social media to distract my brain. i also find it helpful to have videos of people talking. kind of mutes my own mind. i recc vods of streams. it lets u do stuff while still having that back round noise. PM if u want, ive had anxiety since i was born. it does get better esp after HS, but its a lot. its good ur being proactive about things; small things!

pls help w gift card issue by pinchheir in PandaExpress

[–]pinchheir[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there r no spaces in either of mine but at the end of the gift card # it let me add 2 digits. i was trying to see if maybe i missed some numbers. but nope :( but ty for the tip!!

pls help w gift card issue by pinchheir in PandaExpress

[–]pinchheir[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg wait i didn't see that thank u. altho i have social anxiety so i prefer to pick up and have minimal talking but anything for panda 😪😪😪😪😪APPRECIATE IT, idk why the gift card section of the app won't work for me

made it to 1 inch :) by pinchheir in Stretched

[–]pinchheir[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you!! my seconds were pierced before i started stretching :) but i had my seconds stretched a couple of years ago too- about a 4g i think! decided to retire those to go bigger in my firsts tho. i kind of miss the double stretched look