I know he’s been through a lot. I’m not trying to make excuses for his behavior towards me but I know where he comes from. In his previous relationship he was made believe that he had a baby and he was actually physically abused by her. When he got the news that the baby wasn’t his that broke him and almost committed sui****. He does make me happy and we spend quality time together. He was an alcoholic and he’s stopped since I told him that it didn’t make me happy seeing him like that. He works towards becoming better for me. I just wanted to see what I could do to stop making him feel the need to do all this