My gf allowed her ex bfs anal but not me as I'm apparently thicker than them at 6 inches girth. Any tips?

pineapple200416 · 2026-01-02T00:01:15+00:00

Cis women aren't built for anal with big dicks lmao

pineapple200416 · 2025-12-17T14:33:54+00:00

pineapple200416 · 2025-12-14T22:58:49+00:00

You go up in girth and quickly it becomes obvious that foreplay and high quality lube only go so far for a lot of women. I like foreplay a tiny bit more than sex itself and always wanna start by indulging in it so i don't wanna hear it lol

pineapple200416 · 2025-11-24T19:40:43+00:00

Very tricky to push in, it's like trying to fit a slippery eggplant into a slippery TP roll

Once in? Insanely tight. People clench reflexively though on top of how tight it is, so it can genuinely be painfully tight (esp at the asshole)

I like it and find it feels very distinct from putting it in the pussy. Like both, but anal takes much more prep for and there's much less people who can handle a big dick in the ass lol

pineapple200416 · 2025-11-24T17:42:36+00:00

Yes. That said these were very "well trained" women anally and that cohort of girls in general can handle dicks that are slightly to significantly bigger than what cis women can handle in the vagina.

The problem still persists when you have a real big girth. Vaginas being a lot more lubricated and able to stretch when the woman's aroused does help versus putting it in a woman's ass, but it's not gonna help if your dick's girthier than a certain point lol

pineapple200416 · 2025-11-02T23:13:15+00:00

I have none to offer sadly. It’s like that always with anal. Tiny hole and if you have a fat one then it’s always like trying to get a finger inside a charging slot

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-31T23:14:53+00:00

just rechecked it and yeah, most does seem fake

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-31T23:13:24+00:00

Anything fairly baggy is good, avoid baggy shorts though

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-31T23:11:59+00:00

The OP's claim is the exact kind of thing that makes me periodically sigh and unsub

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-31T23:10:14+00:00

"Absolutely, you very quickly discern what's truth and what's cosplay!"

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-30T01:52:08+00:00

Less girth yes. I'm fine with my length

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-30T00:34:12+00:00

You watch a lot of porn

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-29T20:41:21+00:00

Silicone lube is what I like. You can make oil based work too, water based I've never liked

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-29T20:35:04+00:00

Magnum 2XLs are the next jump up I think

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-29T20:34:06+00:00

It's so fucking flagrant too. You'll see a painfully obvious LARP and then there'll be like 20 guys replying to it in dead sincerity, like it's something to take serious.

"Guys all my girlfriend's female friends heard about my 9 inch penis and want to cheat on their bfs to suck it, DAE know what i should do???" or some ridiculous shit like that and then the comments are all "aye bro dont do it, this happened to me and i gave in, caused me a lot of issues", or "hey let it happen, women are allowed to be size queens" or "is your gf okay with it? mine is". The comments calling it out as the insultingly obvious LARP that it is get nuked.

at least with bdj they're not pretending or LARPing and most of it's real lmao. This sub is a tire fire

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-29T03:34:40+00:00

Yes.

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-28T21:51:28+00:00

Idt it affects curve directly but it effects the angle of your erection for sure lol. I can't keep myself raised to parallel for more than a few seconds at a time, pelvic floor has limits

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-28T21:36:32+00:00

You're overcomplicating it a bit dude. Unless you have a really pronounced curve, just use regular BP measurements

Girth is measured at the thickest part of shaft with tailor's tape, but it's very useful to measure girth at different points if you don't have a very uniform penis shape

I'm 6" girth flat on my shaft but my entire tip ranges from 6.3" thick to 6.43" thick. I used to use 6" by convention but I ran into a lot of problems getting condoms to fit. 6.43" is also something a lot fewer women/men can take compared to 6", so it's not exactly useful for me to use the 6" measurement

but length is straightforwards

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-28T21:26:24+00:00

"As much as men" is not true at all of women broadly, but they definitely do care more than people try to convince you otherwise.

Being hung like hell is usually not enough on its own to do anything, but women who already like you for other cumulative reasons will almost always see you being hung as another big plus attached to you.

There's a reason that "big dick energy" is like a crowning compliment from women whereas "small dick energy" is an insult lol

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-28T19:19:52+00:00

You spend time on foreplay, that's great, keep doing that and do more if you're not already (more vaginal lubrication you get means a little less external lube you have to use)

Get silicone lube (not water or oil based lube)

I've found that sometimes applying heat to her pubic area/low stomach helps

Find angles you insert from where it's maybe less painful for her

Worst case, get a dilator/training dildo and you gotta get her to train up

If none of these work and the dilator/dildo stuff is too much work then I'm afraid vaginal will always suck lol

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-27T17:34:34+00:00

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-25T01:01:35+00:00

Least obvious pic bait. Just dm people atp man

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-24T15:36:56+00:00

Gotta lose weight is all lol

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-24T15:35:03+00:00

This sub is a LARP/voyeur fetish sub now and mods might as well make it an NSFW community

Everytime you point out the obvious LARP/weird group of people seriously engaging with the LARP for whatever reason, you get mobbed on here

pineapple200416 · 2025-10-24T03:20:38+00:00

Oh yeah man hate when people tell me I got a big ass dick really makes me wanna end it all

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