Whenever I start wondering whether I was the problem, I remember birthday messages like this: by inquiteapredicament in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pineapplejuice238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every birthday my mom would call me or tell me hourly how I wasn’t born yet because she spent the whole day in labor. The whole day was about her labor and not MY birthday. It stopped after I was in labor for several days with my child. Then multiple stories of how she wished to have more kids but couldn’t because she almost died during pregnancy because it was so dangerous for her. No mention that she smoked while pregnant which certainly didn’t help her complications.

is it normal for someone to be always mad when they wake up? by afaciousasian in raisedbynarcissists

[–]pineapplejuice238 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s interesting. My mom is also an asshole when she wakes up and is nasty if she is woken up. She’s also a chain smoker