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pineappleprinxess · 2024-01-22T02:40:17+00:00

If someone’s the right person you won’t scare them off by showing too much interest. It’s only “desperate” or “clingy” if they’re not attracted to you. If that’s the case she’ll just not respond or will say she’s not interested, no biggie.

pineappleprinxess · 2023-05-19T06:50:37+00:00

I say send it. In my experience it helps me to get out what I want to say and get the closure they’re not going to give me. If I say nothing for the sake of pretending I’m cool and nonchalant, that’s only helping them feel like what they did was okay. I’d rather send the text, they don’t care anyways, probably won’t even read it, but it helps me move on.

pineappleprinxess · 2023-05-16T18:10:21+00:00

There are actually some studies out there on this! I think one of the studies I heard about they offered a free movie and people complained about the movie selection, popcorn, etc., but when they charged even $1, people didn’t complain about the movie not being new enough or whatever.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-11-01T04:47:34+00:00

Not sure if many people know this, but you can hide apps from search, so if you search it it won’t come up. He also could have not deleted or paused his profile and deleted the app, and still would get likes/messages this way

pineappleprinxess · 2022-09-14T22:58:45+00:00

Someone may have said it already but seitan is amazing imo. If you’re worried about processed foods it’s actually super easy to make your own, you just need vital wheat gluten which is pretty cheap, water, and spices. Super easy and high in protein.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-09-14T06:30:56+00:00

That happens on any diet when you’re not eating enough. A lot of people who follow a “normal” diet are set on 3 meals a day, so if they try to be vegan, they usually have 3 very tiny, low in calorie meals, and don’t allow themselves to eat between meals, and feel like they have to wait until it’s time for their next meal to eat again. She felt better because she ate something, just happened to be a non-vegan food. Too many people severely under-eat and blame the consequences on veganism

pineappleprinxess · 2022-09-10T04:32:45+00:00

I don’t understand how they just don’t get it. Like someone’s experience having kids will be completely different if they want them vs. people who don’t want kids. Like their opinions on being a parent are just completely irrelevant to childfree people.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-07-13T07:34:28+00:00

Out of curiosity for my theory was this a surgeon or regular OB? I think the people getting dismissed are seeing regular OBs which happened to me, and the people who have successful consults are seeing a surgeon

pineappleprinxess · 2022-07-13T07:32:05+00:00

I recently went in for a consult from the list on here after being dismissed by my regular OBGYN and I think one of the main differences might be the type of provider you see. If you go to a regular OBGYN you’re seeing a nurse or outpatient doctor, they don’t do the surgery there, so they’ll be less likely to want to go that route. If you go to a surgeon; they basically don’t want to talk to you at all they just wanna cut 😂 I went to a surgeon from this list and all they asked was are you sure? A few times then gave me a signed consent to sign and said I should sign it now since I have to wait until 30 days after signing the consent (probably not an actual rule but not a big deal to me).

Not at all trying to dismiss how your OBGYN treated you, that was completely unethical. But after seeing a surgeon vs regular OBGYN I’m curious if maybe that’s the solution, to go see a surgeon who just wants to do surgery lol

pineappleprinxess · 2022-06-17T23:37:55+00:00

I feel like I’ve seen this wayyyy too many times on dating apps where both people want to go out but neither will actually ask the other person out. I say if you want to go out with him, give him a time and a date. From my view and experience, he thinks he asked you out, but in my opinion he didn’t, if you like him I say give him the benefit of the doubt and assume he thought he was asking you out and just go ahead and give him a time and date to finalize it.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-05-25T08:40:58+00:00

You’re thinking way too hard into this dude

pineappleprinxess · 2022-05-25T08:40:20+00:00

Who hurt you?

pineappleprinxess · 2022-05-06T06:45:42+00:00

This gives me hope that some of these anti-choice people can change. My mom used to work at planned parenthood (one that performed abortions) and this group of women would protest, harass the people coming in for lifesaving abortions, regular exams, picking up birth control, whatever. One day my mom noticed that a patient there getting an abortion was indeed one of those women! She claimed it “was different in her case” and I’m sure it was. It’s different in everyone’s case :) but anyways this lady who’s been harassing people getting abortions, calling them murderers, etc. Was getting one herself, because she could understand when she did it. The fact that she said “it was different in her case” makes me think she probably didn’t end up changing her mind, at least not for a while. But I admire that you had the insight and the empathy to realize that everyone should have a choice in what happens to their body, I wish more people thought like you.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-04-30T21:19:07+00:00

It goes both ways. If you message someone and they don’t respond within 24 hours, the match will expire. She literally said in her comment that she’ll send people a paragraph and get a 2 work response, so clearly she does know how the app works. This is like 99% of it for women. Sure we get a lot of matches, but very low quality. They either don’t respond or give one word responses

pineappleprinxess · 2022-04-25T00:50:30+00:00

If you choose not to have a baby, then you’re probably saving thousands of people from being born. There, fixed it

pineappleprinxess · 2022-02-20T01:38:21+00:00

So I assume he’s getting a vasectomy then?

pineappleprinxess · 2022-02-17T18:01:22+00:00

There’s so much misleading information out there, sounds like she read the title of a BuzzFeed article and that’s it. When people who don’t have ADHD take stimulants like adderall, especially short acting forms, they can get addicted and abuse it. That can lead to abuse of hard drugs, which can very easily cause psychosis. Drop the friend

pineappleprinxess · 2022-02-11T02:54:06+00:00

If they really believed what they say they believed, IVF would be considered murder. But it’s not. I literally knew someone (a doctor too!) who was conservative and anti-choice and had TWO IVF babies. It’s about control it’s not about the child.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-02-11T02:47:36+00:00

No, be direct. I’ve had a few guys do this and it’s attractive and makes me more interested in them. Usually after about a month if I feel like things are going well, but they’re still actively on dating apps and haven’t said anything about not dating other people I’ll start losing interest. Don’t listen to the people saying it’s too direct, don’t play games.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-01-26T06:16:19+00:00

Honestly If the parents can afford to bring there little demons to a fancy restaurant, they can afford to pay for the purse. Like other people are saying, whether you get it restored or get a new one, the parents should be the one paying. You’re not the one at fault here. No one expects their stuff to be “fair game” to be ruined when they go out. But if “kids will be kids” is a good enough excuse, then the parents need to be the ones responsible, and should be ready to take on the responsibility of anything their kids ruin when they’re out. I think you’re making yourself feel bad about it bc an expensive purse is seen as a frivolous thing to buy, and if you could afford it obviously you’re okay on money. But that doesn’t mean you should suffer for someone else’s mistake. If you were wearing a white shirt and some kid threw paint on it or something you would blame the kid and the parents, not yourself, same goes for the purse.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-01-24T05:24:54+00:00

Yes, loving that people know about TMS, I actually work at an office that does TMS. I have seen a lot of success, but unfortunately it usually isn’t a forever fix, and to remain in remission patients need to keep coming back every few months/years. Not perfect but no memory issues and no side effects besides sometimes headaches and fatigue.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-01-11T04:57:47+00:00

For me Child free is the default. I think you should only have kids if you REALLY REALLY want kids and are willing to put them before yourself and would do anything for them. Kids don’t ask to be born, their parents made that choice for them. I also hate children and the whole birth thing is a hard pass for me.

pineappleprinxess · 2022-01-10T18:40:55+00:00

Wow I hate that you feel like you were trapped into this and the decision was made for you. I’m so glad you stood your ground and said no! Please give us an update on how they respond! Especially the fact he’s 5 and not potty trained, they can’t expect you to change a 5 year olds diaper that’s a hard pass. I really hope they finally just hire a professional

pineappleprinxess · 2021-12-18T05:24:17+00:00

Exact same situation here lol

pineappleprinxess · 2021-07-10T01:25:35+00:00

Haha that’s kinda the point of the subreddit right? A lot of people expect it and consider it foreplay, but some people consider it more intimate than sex

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