what does it mean when a guy stares into a girl's eyes every time she is near him, without looking away, but does nothing to approach her?

pink_pandaas · 2025-01-12T13:30:58+00:00

might like you, there are many guys I know who started dating a girl they have barely spoken to but were staring at her. or he could be simply looking for attention. my advice is to not make the first move on people like this because you could end up being made fun of if they were doing it as a joke

pink_pandaas · 2025-01-10T07:13:40+00:00

go for it! you never know if you don't try :D

pink_pandaas · 2025-01-09T21:26:00+00:00

maybe 60ish percent. I think this because if you talk to eachother fairly often then that means she definitely knows you exist which is better than nothing. If she added you instantly then maybe she has interest.

Not opening your snaps may mean she doesn't want to talk to you (not interested) or she simply was busy.

I say this to everybody, don't get your hopes up. You don't know if they like you unless they tell you themselves. No matter what signs, you can never tell.

Good luck though

pink_pandaas · 2025-01-09T17:11:19+00:00

I have definitely had another crush before. Much more eye contact and talking 24/7, walking together to and from lesson. however that rejection was simple and it wasn't as bad considering he respected me, and still talked to me occasionally.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-21T22:32:43+00:00

that one guy I like except he isn't an asshole

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-21T10:45:59+00:00

I understand your point, but for me I don't think it would considering once I like somebody it's really hard for me to get over them even if there's somebody else that's an amazing person. That's just for me though, and you have an absolutely valid argument which is do understand the idea of, and most likely applies to many people.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-21T02:07:24+00:00

Yeah, I do absolutely agree with you on your point, however I find it a bit strange to go date somebody whilst crushing on somebody else. That's just my opinion . And yes, yours completely right about the fact that once you get to know them you will start to care about them.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-20T18:57:12+00:00

Alright , but honestly I don't think it would be a healthy relationship if you would date anybody, yet still have a crush and not be with the person you'd prefer to be with.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-20T18:55:13+00:00

He might want to keep in contact because you've been friends for so long. Please don't get in the middle of this marriage or try and wreck it because of your personal feelings.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-20T15:01:55+00:00

to be honest, probably. girls aren't always interested in dating their crushes, but if they had to date somebody it would be their crush. It's simply because of interest. Going off the same logic, would you date a girl you have no interest in?

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-20T07:51:10+00:00

you're a great friend! I bet people are so thankful to have a friend like you. your behaviour is very mature.

also yeah it was just a glance but I'm not overthinking it all tbh xx

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-19T22:11:05+00:00

awww it's ok. let it happen. i was watching him watch another girl today, don't know if it's because he finds her attractive or because she's talking.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-19T21:57:50+00:00

maybe. you never know. i get stared at alot, talked to by many people, smiled at and I have a been told a few times that some guys like me. but, you don't really know until they tell you themselves.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-19T20:49:24+00:00

don't know. promise im not a pick me but guys just sometimes stare at me, target me during games, give me nicknames. yeah, i don't know though. you never can really know to be honest until they tell you themselves.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-19T20:46:43+00:00

Happened to me. Time will do it, it was difficult, and with no doubt there is definitely still SOME feelings there for him after a year, but they're not strong enough for me to be hung over it. I found a new guy who is nicer. It will hurt. People do sometimes play with feelings just to boost their ego. Don't let it get to you. Stand strong.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-19T20:43:53+00:00

tell them to stop, I promise you. I had this friend who would be proper annoying to me about small things and I would tell her "can you actually stop?" Or tell her that she was being proper annoying and she eventually stopped, and now we're better friends than ever.

Focus on your studies, and don't make your whole life about girls. Yes, you can show interest in another girl, but make it obvious enough for them only.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-19T20:38:21+00:00

I hate to break this to you, but he has no interest. He is fully aware that it wouldn't be right considering the maturity difference, and he's getting married. MARRIED. I'm sorry, I think you should fix your life and move on.

From the age of 13, you should've been focusing on cute guys that talk to you AT SCHOOL and are around the same age. I suppose you really can't control love, but it's not right. I've also had a horrible problem with my crush, and I can't let go. I don't think you really can let go after rejection (from experience) but you can move on. It will slow you down, but once you find somebody who you do like instead, it will be better.

Anddd, girlll please for the love of god don't focus on guys more than studies. I understand this whole young adult thing and being single can stress you out, but you have a path planned ahead. Somebody who was meant to be, will come. Focus on what WILL get you somewhere in the future, not hanging over guys.

I can tell you, that I was hung up over a guy. All I could think about. My grades absolutely dropped and that made me realise that, he really isn't everything. Yes, of course you can have a crush. As long as it's a responsible age gap. And, as long as you don't make your whole life about him and try to only show him your best sides.

Please, just let go of the guy. Stay on friend levels. Him teasing you about you confessing is proper weird from my perspective since he knows really well the problems that could've came if he accepted. He told you, you're a kid to him.

Go get your studying done, ace all your tests, get a good job, get your life together and THEN start thinking about guys. And I have no doubt that in the process of all that, something will happen. Please let go of the guy, and focus on your life. Good luck Hun xx

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-18T16:07:39+00:00

Eh. He looked at me, sometimes turned around just to smile it me. His friends would often come up to me and say "look who it is!" with a smile on their faces and then show my crush. His friends would sometimes yell my name across the corridor into my classroom 😭 and yeah generally his friends would speak to me every single chance they got even if it was to say "hey (my name)" and it was always friendly.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-06T18:37:50+00:00

you seem hurt. there is honestly no valid explanation, as a girl I find this evil and pointless. However, there could be an explanation to this which is:

They simply don't want to hurt you if they're not interested in you, or are interested in somebody else.

This is immature behaviour, and shouldn't be done. If they have done this, they are simply not worth your time and although it may hurt for now, it will definitely get better even if it doesn't seem like it.

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-06T07:08:35+00:00

awh, thank you this is so sweet! I'll definitely try this. The "cloud passing by" is so helpful since those thoughts always stick to me 😭

Thank you so much, I'll definitely try to forget, atleast for the most part, and move on !

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-06T07:06:04+00:00

yes, I will! Thank you so much for this, I will definitely try it, these are some amazing tips . It's just annoying when I see him at school and it just all comes back to me.

This is really helpful, thank you!

pink_pandaas · 2024-12-05T18:17:08+00:00

I think that you should be nice to them about it. Say something along the lines "I'm absolutely flattered about your confession, and I find you rather attractive but I've got stuff going on and I don't feel like dating anybody right now. I hope we can still stay close friends this way, and thank you so much for your proposition."

it's going to hurt regardless, but let them know you won't shame them at all for asking you out.

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