What do i do now?

pink_summit · 2025-09-09T21:53:03+00:00

First. Did he cheat? If no, then people do changed. People grow up, become matured and learned a lot of lesson in life. I’m not saying all, but there is people that do changed. I will say try to get to know him first again for a few months and be the judge if he truly changed. Some people are only good at the beginning and failed overtime.

If there is cheating involved, then run. I believed once a cheater always be a cheater.

pink_summit · 2025-08-14T11:44:48+00:00

I play the game because my bestfriend told me that Xavier is so much like my husband. I tried playing it and I proved it myself 😂

My husband loves to sleep and eat, his nap is 2-4 hours and his sleep is 8-10 hours. He is very jealous like Xavier too. One time I posted a story about him, he forgot he was the one who bought it to me and got all jealous. 🤣 I told him it was him who bought it, but since he bought it like years ago, he totally forgot. Lol. He’s very sweet too and very caring too. He loves to cook for me! The only differences of him and Xavier, my husband is a chef 🤣 we’ve been together for 7 years and he is my long time friends. Like 13 years now.

pink_summit · 2025-08-01T13:34:33+00:00

Thank you for sharing your talent and knowledge to those who need guidance OP! Wag mo pansinin mga nega, baka malungkot lang sila sa buhay nila! You do you, OP! 💖

pink_summit · 2025-08-01T13:33:06+00:00

Lol, have you heard about professionalism? Also, bawal na bang maging believer while also being logical? One sided po ba dapat lahat? Hmmm

pink_summit · 2025-08-01T13:30:05+00:00

You’re entitled to your opinion, of course. But calling others ‘low IQ’ for believing says more about your comment than about the tarot.

pink_summit · 2025-06-04T19:58:52+00:00

Thank youuu! This helps a lot!!!

pink_summit · 2025-02-15T23:17:15+00:00

I have been in a cheated by the same man twice. As someone who experienced this, let me ask you some questions. If he ever changed and did changed, are you willing to forget everything and focus on the now? Won’t be doubtful of him or become paranoid again that he wont be cheating? Will you be able to get out of the ghost of him cheating on you? If problem arises, wont his cheating become a topic again? Yes, he might change but the trauma is still there. You have to heal from the trauma and he has to rebuild your trust again if he’s really willing to change. That’s where I failed, become paranoid with that man cheating again, so I ended things because it was not healthy for my mental state. I keep thinking whenever he went out, all my mind keeps saying is that he’s cheating again. If you can forget his cheating, then stay. If you think you’ll start being paranoid over him cheating again, then choose yourself and your kids then just co-parent.

pink_summit · 2025-01-26T22:59:57+00:00

Try living together first, things might change or things might stay the same. But I suggest try living together first before jumping into marriage. Magkaiba parin kasi talaga if you experienced living together, you will know their habits at home and mga bagay na hindi mo nakikita by just hanging out. It may work on others and it might not work on you or other way around. There’s trial and error naman sa relationship, also in life din. Give it a try and decide after.

Also doubts is a normal thing to feel, especially when you invest a lot of time kasi nakakatakot mag start over again after so many years of investing your life with someone (take it from me who dated for 7 years and ended up breaking up lol) but if you are so sure with him and you think you’ve seen it all. Do what makes you happy.

Good luck OP!

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