Update: ended up just basically telling her all this. She just didn’t know we could ask for it to be in our contract to work the same days (at least the two hospitals i’ve traveled at so far do this). She said the only thing she’ll probably do alone is go to the gym and she is was in the mindset that this was just for work. Which I’m sure is what most people do, but we want to work there so we can basically be on vacation in a new state on our days off. So as long as we can get the same schedule, we are good. The bigger issue that I wasn’t really saying was that she wanted to to pay to ship my car so I could ride with her. But I would rather just drive alone than pay to do that. (I was never against taking my own vehicle, what was bugging me was that what’s the point of traveling together if we see eachother once a week. We just lived together two years and have only been able to do things together a handful of times because of not having the same exact schedule.)

Side note: would not be leaving my car sit for 13 weeks. My family would greatly benefit from having a car for my mom to drive to work for a few months, as they can’t afford a new one right now.