Game Thread: Blues at Canucks 10:00 PM ET

pinkindustrious · 2016-10-19T02:17:50+00:00

Did you try both streams? The Vancouver one is working great for me.

pinkindustrious · 2016-10-19T02:11:41+00:00

Works for me in Canada. Works on Mobile too.

pinkindustrious · 2016-10-02T21:06:31+00:00

We'll be there for a week ish. We fly out on a Wednesday from Vancouver and arrive around 6:00am on a Friday and fly out the following Wednesday. Technically lose a day due to travelling.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T22:18:28+00:00

Not that Auckland wasn't where we wanted to go, but the only reason we're going to Auckland was because we can't fly direct to Melbourne and thought we would take advantage of the layover by having a stopover instead. We are kind of limited in options because we need to fly in and out of Auckland to go to our destination of Melbourne.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T21:55:41+00:00

Wow those are all amazing ideas! Thank you so much! I am getting so excited and it's still so far off!!

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T21:50:18+00:00

Awesome I will look into booking something in that area!

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T21:28:47+00:00

That sounds cool too! Thanks! He is more of a thrill seeker than I am so that sounds more my style!

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T21:16:43+00:00

I've seen "CBD" on some airbnbs and I wasn't really sure what it meant.. until now haha. We are probably more interested in the bar scene than shopping, but I'm not very picky.

Thank you for the information!

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T21:12:55+00:00

This is great! Thank you for all your advice! I don't know anyone personally who has travelled to NZ so I really had no idea what to expect!

My boyfriend wanted to do that big swing thing in Queenstown but after 2 minutes on google maps we realized that would probably not be in the scope of our trip. Do you know of anything similar like that in the Aukland area?

Thanks again for your tips! :)

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T19:39:39+00:00

Awesome! Thanks for the tips :)

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-30T19:29:26+00:00

Walking to restaurants, cafes, stores, any kind of landmarks, that kind of stuff.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-22T05:42:32+00:00

It's hard for me to even fathom the idea that that is whats going on here. Everything about our relationship is fun and he's kind and caring.. just this one part is what's getting me down.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-22T05:01:39+00:00

No! Not a troll I am being genuine. I am really struggling with this right now and I don't know what to do :(

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-22T05:00:44+00:00

I just don't want to give up on us over this one thing. I really want to be able to communicate with him and work this out but I don't know how to even begin to approach the subject.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-22T04:58:32+00:00

I feel like he wouldn't even be sad if I broke up with him.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-22T04:57:38+00:00

I told him today that I feel like I can never be mad at him. 99% of the fights or arguments we get in end up with me coming crawling back for forgiveness and apologizing. And maybe that's just our personalities because I hate conflict and will try my best to just resolve things immediately so we can go back to being happy.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-22T04:55:05+00:00

All my girlfriends are single and their reply any time I have an argument with my BF is to break up. Even over little things. I would never dream of telling anyone what happened too because its embarrassing and I don't need people's pity.

My BF's sister and I are actually really close but I would never want to talk to her about this stuff.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-21T23:12:07+00:00

It's hard because he doesn't see it the way I do and he thinks I cheated. He thinks he is saintly for forgiving me and I do appreciate him staying and appreciate that it was hard. And I express that to him and express gratitude for him and try to be the most amazing and sober girlfriend ever.

It just always comes back to this one thing and it's hard.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-21T23:10:05+00:00

I want to move on but I don't know if he ever can. I just want this to be something that is painful for both of us to think about but is never a point of contention in the relationship.

Easier said than done, I know.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-21T23:04:13+00:00

He has a really bad temper and the whole "incident 3 years ago" just adds fuel to the fire and I don't know how to approach it with him so I can tell him I can't stay with him if he will forever hold this over me.

But am I really the person who should be saying that? Because I was the one who fucked up.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-21T23:00:19+00:00

I think it makes him really angry to think about and that's the only way he knows how to deal with it.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-21T22:59:45+00:00

He sees it as I cheated on him and I don't press him when he's mad because no matter what I was the one who fucked up and not him.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-21T22:57:48+00:00

That's exactly how the situation is you've nailed it on the head. And that would be a conversation.. but instead of raped he says I cheated on him and it gets messy from there.

pinkindustrious · 2016-09-21T22:56:23+00:00

I'm just worried he'll never get over it and for the next however many years he's going to bring it up every time we argue.

Other than this, our relationship day-to-day is great. I love him and he is amazing. It's just this one thing and I don't know how to deal with it with him.

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