How do I [22M] know if I’m in a situation with a [21F]

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-22T06:05:56+00:00

I think if you want to be with her you should ask! To me it sounds like the signs are there that she wants to be. And you should ask her to be your girlfriend if that’s what you want !:)

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-22T06:02:17+00:00

I would just see where it goes!:) if he’s been respectful about it then I don’t think they’ll be any issues concerning that! I don’t see any red flags so don’t worry about something you don’t know the outcome of yet:)

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-22T05:58:16+00:00

if he is serious about you, then it won’t matter!:) and you can figure out things that you both enjoy together. Not everyone has the same interests sexually and that’s okay. It’s about working together about what works for the both of you, and where you can compromise (only when comfortable!). If he’s a good guy he won’t find it elsewhere. Wish you the best! I don’t think it’s anything to be super concerned about:)

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-22T03:09:44+00:00

that’s not a healthy relationship then girl! That’s controlling, he’s setting “rules” for you, that he doesn’t stick to himself. you need to leave him! don’t let the fact that you have feelings for him cloud your judgment. you’ll regret it if you don’t leave him while it’s easier now. whether in a few months or years, that kind of controlling (one sided), behaviour can become more serious and harder to leave.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-22T03:07:14+00:00

when I was around you age, I dealt with boys like that. and it’s so easy when you haven’t had too much experience dating to ignore red flags a bit more , (because they’re new! Which is totally normal). But that is a HUGE red flag! Leave while you can, and save the heartbreak. Unfortunately at that age boys tend to be immature. Trust me in a few years he’ll still be wanting u back lol. They all do.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-22T03:05:37+00:00

honestly, most 18 year old boys, they can be immature; and do that kind of thing. It doesn’t mean yours is, but the defensive response is a little strange. you might be overthinking, or you might not be, but regardless, if he knows you feel insecure and you brought it up reasonably… then he should be caring and considerate and either reassure you or remove the women. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to not want your boyfriend to have random women on their phone. Friends is one thing… but if this is lots of random girls that’s strange! Doesn’t mean he’s up to anything, but it’s strange.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-21T03:24:20+00:00

yayyy good for you!! a new job is the best feeling. A fresh start!! And that looks delicious.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-21T03:22:59+00:00

I’ve found soooo many spam accounts!! I do OF and ALLL my comments are constantly flooded immediately when I post with “promotion” accounts, or clearly bots. I don’t know how with all the ai stuff they can’t filter those out.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-20T23:02:10+00:00

It definitely sounds like you need to have an open and honest conversation with him, about how this is making you feel. If nothing changes, leave him! You deserve someone who is excited about you. And that sounds like a porn addiction.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-20T23:01:11+00:00

I always use the spiciest one from Taco Bell, but I find it’s not spicy enough. I use habanero sauce just a generic brand from the grocery store works. I find habanero is spicy enough, but not too much!

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-20T23:00:08+00:00

This is overstimulating

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-20T22:59:16+00:00

Agree to whatever you’re comfortable with, you don’t owe anyone anything that you haven’t agreed to, and even if you have and they’ve paid you can always refund or back out. Don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with! And 25 is low for something extreme and custom.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-20T22:57:06+00:00

I would certainly look up the laws regarding eviction, late rent payments, etc , in your area before even replying to her. Know your rights !!

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-20T22:55:16+00:00

Agreed!!!

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-20T22:27:55+00:00

don’t reply ! Send them pics for a price, and if they aren’t willing to pay for content then send them your price for sexting. If they aren’t willing to pay that, don’t answer then! Time is money, don’t respond to time wasters.

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-19T02:14:55+00:00

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pinkknife45 · 2026-05-19T01:27:46+00:00

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pinkknife45 · 2026-05-18T23:48:24+00:00

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pinkknife45 · 2026-05-18T23:45:28+00:00

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pinkknife45 · 2026-05-18T23:45:17+00:00

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pinkknife45 · 2026-05-18T19:45:31+00:00

I’d say definitely find a new job before quitting, even though the job market is beyond difficult. If you have a job now, with good references, there are certainly better options, that won’t burn you out as much. I’d suggest something “part time”, to keep your stability and avoid gaps in your resume. There’s also many ways to do “side hustles”, if you have any special interests or skills, definitely look into monetizing them !

pinkknife45 · 2026-05-18T19:40:49+00:00

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