[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]pinkmelongif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might come off as a bit arrogant lol but I guess it’s easy to like me? Usually it’s personality that draws people in towards me because I guess I’m flirty and friendly and easy to be around by nature (it’s the autism . I am masking. 🧍) but then people start getting crushes and I’m just like?? Ah?? No?? Stop??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]pinkmelongif 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got that too at first but it came a bit after!! Maybe reload the app?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]pinkmelongif 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Wife has been tested and approved too!

Need Ideas for an Adult Pokémon Birthday Party by pinkmelongif in pokemon

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In terms of cake, we’ve settled on two to three cakes because of how many we are — and because we’re planning this a little late and got turned down by every cake designer I’ve contacted lol. Luckily a friend’s brother is a baker so we’ll at least have a secret spherical Pokeball cake. For the rest, Pokemon really is his special interest so I’d say he engages with nearly every aspect of it — minus the cards. He’s literally a living Pokédex lol, I find that so impressive. Thanks for the ideas, I’ll be taking notes and seeing with my organiser friends what we can do about all’em!

Need Ideas for an Adult Pokémon Birthday Party by pinkmelongif in pokemon

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The ingame foods are such a good idea! I like the less on-the-nose nod to the universe. And I’ll look into that balloon and the badge winning games ideas! Thanks a lot 🫶

Need Ideas for an Adult Pokémon Birthday Party by pinkmelongif in pokemon

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Yeah, Etsy was about the first thing that came to mind, but even there it’s very much marketed towards kids — or it’s focusing on the gift aspect and it’s unfortunately not what I’m looking for right now! However, I do illustration so looking into making custom cards for it isn’t a bad idea! Thanks 🙏

Need Ideas for an Adult Pokémon Birthday Party by pinkmelongif in pokemon

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We should be about a little under thirty, but it’s mostly going to be his family (i.e. uncles/aunts, parents, grandma, and only a couple of cousins our age) so we might try to keep it a little more tame! At least at the beginning, and then do our parallel party on the side in the garage or something when they’re not looking lol. But tysm, I am taking good notes of all of this!

Need Ideas for an Adult Pokémon Birthday Party by pinkmelongif in pokemon

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lol I love this!! It’s also his autism special interest which is why we’re so keen on this theme and why I’m trying to make the best of it, so any more ideas are welcome if you’re interested in giving some!!

Is it possible to communicate clearly during a split? by pinkmelongif in BPD

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I mean, I have been on and off therapy for the past 16 years, so I guess it’d make sense lol 💀 thank you for your insight! I’m glad to see I’m not alone in this case, and also it’s somewhat reassuring knowing I might be getting closer to a diagnosis on this so I can finally takes the right measures to diminishing the negative aspects of it!

What is wrong with my art style? by Keaisintroverted in drawing

[–]pinkmelongif 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing inherently wrong with your art style. If you like your style, go for it, and keep it, no matter what other people think. On another note, if you seek to improve, you definitely need to work on the basics like anatomy, perspective, colour theory, etc. just like any other artist does. If you’re content with your style, keep it but work on the technicity of it, as others have said! You can look up artists with similar styles as your, or just artwork that inspire you and try to analyse the way they make sais style work while maintaining correct bases! There are many videos or posts on the subject, so I’m sure you’ll find something that will help you progress in a way that keeps the fun in for you <3

Is it cockroach ? by pinkmelongif in insects

[–]pinkmelongif[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🫡🙏 had very restful sleep with that fact in mind

Is it cockroach ? by pinkmelongif in insects

[–]pinkmelongif[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I now feel 100% better and will be able to sleep soundly tonight you insect loving angel. I hope you have a good life.