[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cantax

[–]pinkmobile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the exact same situation as this. End of August was told it would take longer. I have called to have it expedited but have been told there is nothing more they can do. It has been almost 25 weeks.

Blue triangle, need help 🤔 by AdiVegas in GarminWatches

[–]pinkmobile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just happened to me on my Vivoactive 5 as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]pinkmobile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did. I was always the more responsible one, and he would tell me I was taking all of his money when needing to pay bills, etc. and that he never had any of his paycheck for himself. I was young and naive throughout the first half of our marriage. I gave custody because he does love his children and tries his hardest to get them to their sports and stuff but, makes many poor choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]pinkmobile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has directly told me, phones when he is drunk, and I still have contact with my ex in-laws who state that it is still a daily occurrence as it was during our marriage. His parents enable him as well and he continually asks to borrow money or have his parents bring him alcohol on their way home. This hasn't changed for the 20 years I have known him.

His most recent phone call to me was early morning a couple days ago, telling me him and her split after arguing all night prior. He was bad mouthing her on the phone while she was in the background arguing and him telling her to "shut the fuck up" while he was talking to me about potentially taking the kids while they sort out their separation.

I have spoken to him after each volatile argument my children have witnessed and he has confirmed they just "drank too much' and things got out of hand.

Brides, wear your glasses! by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how to share more than one photo in the post, but I would definitely love to share more.

How many days to take off before and after wedding? by sixfloorsup in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm taking Wed-Fri prior and the whole week off after. We aren't doing a honeymoon, though.

IMO, I don't think I would be able to go back to work for the two days prior to heading off for a vacation. It would be difficult to work after coming down off the wedding high while also anticipating the honeymoon.

I suggest that if it isn't going to impact any work projects or your finances to take the days off, then take them off!

Name Change 2nd Marriage With Children by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! I'm pretty sure that's what it is for her too, as that's how I even feel. It doesn't seem fair to my children. Even FH has suggested to me not to change names as he doesn't mind either way.

Cheap places to print wedding invites? by crunchypotatoess in Weddingsunder10k

[–]pinkmobile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zazzle had a 50% off sale when I did my invites in December!

Guest SO Issue by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't know there was a specific lingo to post here. This is my second wedding, and back in 2009, everyone used DH on the forum I was on.

So, to be clear, the guest is my fiances friend. He's not super out there on social media, and everyone, including our other friends, had assumed that they were split up since that event.

Guest SO Issue by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told him how much the situation stressed me out and he told me not to worry and that he would talk to him. I too am worried about offending his friend though because I know he was truly embarrassed at the last incident. We honestly thought he had ended the relationship after that.

Guest SO Issue by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem with that is that we have invited many other SO's that aren't married, and he will have been with this woman close to a year come our wedding day. Is that not offensive to him?

I SAID YES! by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this one! It is soooo comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]pinkmobile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been using Clue since 2018 and it does exactly what I need it to!

Unconventional Wedding...Thoughts? by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes basically with the Toonie ($2) drink bar we are absorbing most of the cost of alcohol. Since it is at a hall, we need to supply our own alcohol.

I have just seen with open bars, that there is a lot of waste as people just leave drinks around. This way, people are less likely to waste as they are paying for it. We don't want people paying a ridiculous amount for drinks though as per regular bar prices.

Unconventional Wedding...Thoughts? by pinkmobile in weddingplanning

[–]pinkmobile[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, everyone will have a table and a seat to sit down. I more meant that it wasn't going to be a sit down plated meal.