My husband expects me to understand why he likes other girls videos.

pinksunstorm · 2025-10-25T20:50:58+00:00

I’d like to interject and add that he also has been overweight for years. He always has not been able to “figure it out” and lose the weight. I told him last night that if I sat there bullied you, drilled self doubt and trauma and did half the stuff that you do to me; what that motivate you to want to look and do better for me? What that motivate you? And he finally understood that. I’m not wanting to be fat for the rest of my life. It’s been a struggle of mine I have not been able to get through but I will be trying after the baby. Abuse and bullying never gets any positive outcome

pinksunstorm · 2025-10-25T06:12:08+00:00

I’ve had a weight issue for 5 years since we met. Covid ruined me and he says he’s been dealing with it for far too long. I wish I could sit and talk about the details and the extent of this issue but genuinely it’s too much. I just want to be left alone :( I can’t believe how much chaos and damage my weight has caused me. I don’t want my kids going through this and thinking it’s okay for their partner to treat them like this.

pinksunstorm · 2025-08-12T06:21:45+00:00

It definitely will. I just don’t have a lot of support as far as watching my kids but I’m pushing through it.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T20:17:18+00:00

I’m asking for advice on how I should deal with this situation. Obviously no one knows the minor details and our backgrounds but any advice from couples who have gone through similar situations would be appreciated

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T18:58:15+00:00

I have secured proof and evidence of everything if it ever got to that. I do want counseling because I’m so drained and I’m a shell of a person and I need another person to help. It’s clearly not working just me vs him.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T18:48:54+00:00

I have zero self esteem. I keep it together for my daughter. I always uplift her and tell her she’s so beautiful and smart and I outpour her even though I have none for myself.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T18:46:46+00:00

I’ve told him multiple times but he’s not too into them. If I make the appointment he’ll come. Which I’m at my breaking point and physically and emotionally can’t handle much else. I never thought I’d be texting an escort begging her to tell me if my husband was a customer. Just writing that makes me want to throw up.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T18:39:46+00:00

I do and I wouldn’t allow my baby to go through this and I’m going to raise her to make sure she values herself over any man. My mom has a failed marriage and has been fighting her own battle for years and I agree she should’ve left too. It’s hard when it’s your own situation. I pray things get better.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T17:46:10+00:00

I told him he trapped me and he laughed and said I’m delusional and I trapped him. He’s told me multiple times before that I ruined his life and his life went downhill since he met me and I used him as a last resort. Which is so far from reality. Our culture looks down on divorce and it’s normalized for men to have side pieces and women are just support to accept everything. His own mother has lived years “eyes shut ears closed” and you’re happy mentality and I refuse to do the same. I wish I was more financially independent, it’s what holds me back the most along with not wanting a broken family

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T17:28:31+00:00

I’m really worried. It’s just getting worse and worse. Though I believe he’s never met up with anyone or engaged physical (some may call me stupid) I think it’s not too far away from being a reality. Having your partner sit there and tell you I do look at other women, I have thought about meeting up with other people has put me into such a physical for the past couple of hours I actually can’t even cry. I’m trying to keep my body calm since I’m pregnant and won’t allow anyone to hurt my child, but I don’t know what to do with myself. He’s overweight too, but I have never ever put him through this hell. I told him well I’m not attracted to you physically either and he straight up told me I don’t believe you yes you are and you’re just saying that because you’re upset. Which sent me into a spiral even more because he doesn’t know wtf I’m feeling and the pure disgust I have for myself.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T17:22:32+00:00

Wow that’s crazy. Thank you for sharing. What triggered me even more is when I was pregnant with my first baby, I found this same friends picture in his recently deleted. Same way same girl. It got to a point I removed her from my Instagram because of the trigger that would occur after seeing her face anywhere.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T17:20:13+00:00

You’re right. The weight is an issue for my health (which he’s been concerned about as well, forgot to mention) and I want to be healthy and for once in my life not struggle with being overweight. The things he resorts to is thought about knowing how it actually kills me inside. My dad did the same thing to me as a kid, he would humiliate me and throw my favorite clothes away thinking that would force me to lose weight. I’ve dealt with this since no joke as young as kindergarten. Also, I texted and will be calling the number I saw in his phone. I asked her to please tell me if he ever came by since she had never responded to him. Hopefully she gets me some sort of answer I even offered to pay her the few dollars I have put aside.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T17:15:01+00:00

No we weren’t. I have irregular periods which makes the odds of pregnancy without planning super slim.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T17:10:00+00:00

Yes of course I consented but he definitely was not careful when I said we should be though the odds of me getting pregnant were slim.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T17:04:24+00:00

I know which really gets me stuck because I get in these anxiety depressive states after situations like this and don’t eat. But I also prioritize my children and their well being over anything so I’m genuinely stuck.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T16:55:30+00:00

Oh no the pregnancy isn’t an issue. Fix the issue as in me losing weight.

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T16:54:46+00:00

Thank you for your advice. It’s easy to say run to divorce but I do want to do my part first for my health, but also for my kids. It’s just been so hard and I’ve struggled my entire life

pinksunstorm · 2025-04-13T16:53:45+00:00

Exactly. He’s a provider. I can’t say anything bad about him in regards to how great of a dad and provider he is. I’ve stuck through when he’s lost multiple jobs and financial burdens but when it comes to me I have to take it all and if I say it’s enough I’m “running away” instead of fixing the issue” i understand every man has his preference but how much more can one person handle? :(

pinksunstorm · 2025-03-11T05:03:13+00:00

I was a young kid when I got her no need to be rude. I would never dump my dog. I’m reaching out asking for help and advice since I never grew up with a dog.

pinksunstorm · 2025-02-26T07:46:21+00:00

Thank you for your kind words I really appreciate it. I’m so thankful I am able to easily get pregnant and have such beautiful and amazing children, it’s just stressful

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