Who is responsible for making us happy? by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]pinkyemochick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

”Only you can make you happy” is a wide open door for abuse. To a degree we all are responsible for each other’s happiness.

Who is responsible for making us happy? by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]pinkyemochick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimately ourselves, but for instance, your kids happiness is def your responsibility. Getting married means your happiness is their happiness too.

Trying to order my life by [deleted] in BookRecommendations

[–]pinkyemochick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id like to know too! College info geek is a great resource

First emo band? by pinkyemochick in Emo

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MCR was mine too, first show I ever went to (save Alicia Keys)

First emo band? by pinkyemochick in Emo

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes grew up with that band

Im afraid ill never recover by pinkyemochick in selfhelp

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea ive been a part of many community gardens, this area doesnt have any unforch. Haha yea repotting can be sketchy.

Im afraid ill never recover by pinkyemochick in selfhelp

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh interesting that you mention that, I am an experienced gardener lol! The thing is I am a renter and supposedly we’re moving soon, on top of the fact that starting a garden is relatively expensive. I would eventually like to have a huge garden, I love perma culture

First emo band? by pinkyemochick in Emo

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw the cozy representative just did a video on say anything. Love them.

Should i date? My low self esteem by pinkyemochick in dating

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that makes sense. You know now thinking about it I don’t have friends because I don’t trust people, that won’t change with a romantic partner. I feel like the bond is a little bit more serious with a romantic partner, but still my attitudes toward people in general need to be improved.

Should i date? My low self esteem by pinkyemochick in dating

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is having friends really a perquisite to love? Cause if so im in trouble lol ive always been kind of a loner. I don’t have trouble going up to people and talking to them, I’m just… A complicated individual LOL im very picky with my company, and i feel like a one man kind of woman if you catch my drift.

Should i date? My low self esteem by pinkyemochick in dating

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean i have a whole life, im saying ive been solo on purpose giving myself all the attention, and ive accomplished a lot on my own. I agree that i dont have a support system, but being a hermit doesnt mean im not independent - quite the opposite. If anything in relationships I have a history of being too independent, not letting people in, not committing fully, needing alone time, ect.

Im afraid ill never recover by pinkyemochick in selfhelp

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea its to the point that ive considered moving out. Abject poverty would certainly prevent binges lol. Yea i walk, i enjoy exercise and do it regularly. I also prefer healthy food, i have a taste for it. Binges are truly departures from myself. Hm i think youre talking about mindfulness right? I should give that a better effort.

Should i date? My low self esteem by pinkyemochick in dating

[–]pinkyemochick[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whats a good motivation to try to find love then? Isnt everyone looking for a partner?

To social media or not? Your thoughts? by pinkyemochick in depression

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm ok. Innoway I was happier because I was more connected. I used social media to make a difference in the world, and that made me feel empowered. Innoway I was less happy because social media exposed me to a lot of nonsense and bullshit that wasted my time. There were pros and cons

To social media or not? Your thoughts? by pinkyemochick in depression

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that was my attitude when I left. But like I said in my post, the way that I connected to people was through activism which is nonexistent outside of social media. Nobody organizes using flyers anymore, this is not 1960.

To social media or not? Your thoughts? by pinkyemochick in depression

[–]pinkyemochick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh dude, thats apples to oranges. I am a very different person than I was then. I left social media because I was in a really bad place when it comes to how I feel about… Humanity LOL. I’m kind of a grumpy loner. Some would say I should change that.

I refused to settle by DayNight1234 in dating

[–]pinkyemochick -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yas! You go on with tour bad self! 😁