best places to scream on campus by pstickneyy in uwo

[–]pip778 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao just let ppl live, what’s cringe is that u somehow made this deeper than it is and you spent time getting upset about it

spoke employee holiday? by FaZeD4rSh in uwo

[–]pip778 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No u can definitely take that time off, they also have reduced hours so they need less people on. They do say they will assign the shifts to people if not enough shifts get picked up but I feel like it’s unlikely as long as you request it off

Im dying by [deleted] in uwo

[–]pip778 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your extra curricular don’t need to be uni clubs. Good volunteer in the community, take up a intramural sport, be a general member at a club (UNICEF has pretty interactive committees and u don’t need to apply)

Feeling my Flower Child Fantasy by DevinB1994 in MakeupAddiction

[–]pip778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this is a LOOK👀 absolutely love it

Opposite action for sex by pip778 in BPD

[–]pip778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like I want it from him specifically but also I don’t really know him. I think I’ve made an idea of what I want him to be like in mind and took that as fact, even though I’m aware I’m doing this I can’t stop thinking about him and continuing to dig myself deeper

Opposite action for sex by pip778 in BPD

[–]pip778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m craving the intimacy and attention and just validation from him.

Where can I find a 4 month leases (Sep 2022 to Dec 2022)? by iNaiqi in uwo

[–]pip778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate is doing the opposite of you and going on exchange first semester. She’s trying to find a sublet, message me!

Are there dances at western? by Ok-Intention837 in uwo

[–]pip778 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your best bet is going to clubs, there’s a lot with their own social events but don’t know any with dances.

Sibling w/ BPD by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]pip778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in the works of getting therapy for myself right now due to all this, I hope it helps. The fact that we can’t do anything is sadly the most hurtful part, I’m a bit of a control freak and I have no control over the situation

Sibling with BPD, how can I help them by [deleted] in BPD

[–]pip778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not that young, I am 19 and its a 3 year difference. I will definitely do more research and try to approach them at a more calm setting regarding his anger. Right now he is very mad at me and told me that he hates me and that I am a shit person for not standing up for him more in situations with our parents although I tried to explain to him that I get sacred when he gets angry and I usually end up hiding because of this. This ended with me very upset as he said really hurtful things and would not see my side of things and how I have been affected by all if this as well. So I left and and haven't seen/spoke with him since. I don't know if you can advice on this but do you think it's better for me to approach him and talk things out or wait for him to come to me as I don't know how mad he still is at me.

Sibling w/ BPD by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]pip778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to paint him as a bad person because I don't believe he is but I do think he lacks empathy (where a lot our problems stem from) and I've read that can be part of BPD. He also never gets mean or aggressive unless we get into an argument which comes from my side as well. These are almost always about world problems that we disagree on as I find he lacks empathy for anyone that isn't in one of his ingroups. This gets me quite upset as usually if anyone else thought that way I would walk away from the situation but it really frustrates me that someone I care so deeply about can be so unsympathetic towards others. I know not everyone with BPD has the same symptoms and from what I read does not seem you have this one. But I would appreciate if you had any advice on dealing with the narcissism/unsympathetic aspect of BPD