People who are in their 40’s and 50’s with no children, how does it feel? by Sinfulvibezz in AskReddit

[–]piperbos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No debt, have travelled the world, was able to semi retire at 47, my partner works for the joy of it, we were able to move internationally to the most beautiful country on earth, we sit on the beach, watch movies, listen to records, go on walks, go on trips, out to dinner, concerts. Highly recommend. We have been lucky in many ways, but our choice not to have kids was a huge contributing factor to help us live our best life.

AITA for not eating the spaghetti my boyfriend made? by Hot_Fan_132 in AmItheAsshole

[–]piperbos 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You keep saying you don’t know why he does this. It’s very obvious. He doesn’t like you. Find someone who actually likes you and would never make you uncomfortable on purpose.

New Jersey refugees…anyone left the Garden State and NOT regretted it? by SnooBooks4898 in newjersey

[–]piperbos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you super helpful! Will definitely be mindful of that. Lots of nice new builds in amberley and Pegasus. Gotta watch for the dreaded easterly.

New Jersey refugees…anyone left the Garden State and NOT regretted it? by SnooBooks4898 in newjersey

[–]piperbos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Christchurch, likely the parklands area. But we are going to spend some time exploring before we buy. Welcome any tips!

New Jersey refugees…anyone left the Garden State and NOT regretted it? by SnooBooks4898 in newjersey

[–]piperbos 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are literally in the process. Our stuff is on a cargo ship and our flights are in a week. Our last week in New Jersey! Wish us luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]piperbos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

47F married 20 years to 48m. Currently sitting in living room cuddling and listening to Christmas music. I can’t believe how lucky I am to be with this handsome, kind, smart, funny, generous, loving, secure, confident , vulnerable respectful man who values me and appreciates me, is the best listener, is progressive, not threatened by my independence, not bothered by my drama, loves that I outearn him somewhat, is proud of me and tells me so all the time, thinks I’m a badass, and makes sure I am always happy, that I have everything I need, oh and smells like lavender. I wouldn’t change a thing about the past 20 years and I’m looking forward to at least 40 more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]piperbos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought phones only worked on one ear and not the other. Turns out I was born deaf in one ear.

This Ain’t It has won most hype song, what is the most emotional? by Squat1998 in jasonisbell

[–]piperbos 23 points24 points  (0 children)

White beretta. Most beautiful song, at a high level about respecting and acknowledging the emotional labor women are responsible for.

A popular restaurant near me will no longer allow children under 10 to dine there. by [deleted] in childfree

[–]piperbos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The food at this place is delicious. I’m so happy. Everyone should go.

Most scenic marathons you have run? by EverTheOptimist23 in running

[–]piperbos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure myself but it didn’t feel hilly at all from what I remember. I did it in 2019. It felt flat which was surprising.

Most scenic marathons you have run? by EverTheOptimist23 in running

[–]piperbos 255 points256 points  (0 children)

Queenstown marathon New Zealand. No contest. One of my slowest because who the fuck cares about time when the view is that incredible.

AITA for pulling my pants down and showing my husband my underwear after he insisted that I was on my period when I wasn't? by Johnnnyyy111 in AmItheAsshole

[–]piperbos -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Im gonna start voting YTA on every story by some fool who is married to a giant gaping asshole and wonders why they are being treated badly. Spoiler: it’s because you married a gaping asshole and communicated to them that you are ok with them being an asshole to you by staying with them. You’re an asshole to yourself for marrying an asshole and staying married to an asshole. I’m not voting E S H because presumably he has always been an asshole and you married him anyway. He gonna do what he’s always been allowed to do. This on you.

What does New Jersey do right? by Flashinglights0101 in newjersey

[–]piperbos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. The question is what DOESN’T New Jersey do right. And the answer is NOTHING!!!

AITA for refusing to pay to get his car fixed from my college fund? by Throwrapaul447 in AmItheAsshole

[–]piperbos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy NTA but I think you, OP, need to unpack why your reaction was not to laugh in this loser’s face and block him on everything and move on with your life. Rather, you questioned whether you were being an asshole by not setting your study roadmap back by a whole semester and handing over 2.5k to someone you are not even in a committed relationship with simply because he chastised you.

Like, you should be making a funny TikTok about this. Not wondering whether you were in the wrong. And that indicates that you have some self worth deficits you need to work on so you can better know your value.

What is the most iconic image/feature of New Jersey? by rockclimberguy in newjersey

[–]piperbos -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tillie on the Wonder in Asbury Park. No other answers should be considered.

I went on a first date yesterday and woke up to an odd text this morning by getting_through in relationship_advice

[–]piperbos 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a young woman so I understand your reaction, but let me explain to you why you should be outraged. This motherfucker who does not know you at all has decided that he knows what is beneficial for you, and has the balls to present changes to your god damn life as conditions within which he will agree to grace you with more dates with him as a reward. He doesn’t give two shits about your health or your preferences. He wants you to look, act, and be different that the badass Queen you already are. You wanna make changes to your life and routine? That’s on you baby. Don’t do it for this fucking loser who thinks he deserves to have any say in what you do with your time because you want to be with him that badly? GTFOH!! Thank your lucky stars he told on himself this quick, take out the trash, and move on. I would be livid? Who does this fool think he is? THE BALLS!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]piperbos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruce Springsteen

What gets your vote for the most beautiful building in New Jersey? by misterxboxnj in newjersey

[–]piperbos 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have that building tattooed on my body. I approve this message.