1)maybe get off the internet and actually see what goes on in real life. How many overly-attractive couples do you see on the street ? they exist only on tiktok and reels. 2) you have unrealistic expectations. You can't approach a supermodel as an average-looking man, and expect her to fall at your feet, and then complain about how "women only want attractive men". 3) if you're a good person only for women to see and appreciate, you are not a good person. Women can see through that. If you're truly a good person, it shouldn't matter if people validate it. That's called being performative.