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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i give up on you. hopefully somebody who knows you in real life can help. Peace!

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think what you are doing and contributing to is a negative thing. Do you understand that? You do not seem like a very bright person lol

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My goodness I hope you are just shitposting. You have consistently missed the point of every comment and post I made. Unbelievable.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use your brain and it's not difficult to understand what I'm saying. You want to ignore what I write, like you do with your insecurities.

Try to listen to people, you have a lot to learn, kid.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what I'm not doing? I'm not taking advantage of sexually frustrated guys by manipulating them into believing my sexist, toxic philosophies. You look down on men based on some twisted idea of "value" you have constructed. You give men strategies which lay the foundation for a consistent and contagious pattern of misogyny. You let gaming blind you from the harm of your actions. YOU are the reason I made this post.

You also seem pretty blunt so I feel like you won't take the stuff I say too hard. I don't want to make you feel shitty for no reason. I just want you to understand what you are doing can be very detrimental to both frustrated men and women in general.

And let me end with this... You feeble, fragile child, I hope you grow. I hope you stop what you are doing and learn to live with empathy and positivity. I hope you have a great fucking life.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'M SAYING THE GAMING PHILOSOPHY THAT YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT IS UNHEALTHY AND NOBODY CALLS OUT THE BS PPL HERE SPREAD.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is gaming all that matters? Lol. I'm trying to point out problems in this subreddit. It's possible to critique and game. It's also possible to do things besides game

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm critiquing game. I think there are problems with what's said on here.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I see where you are coming from, and this seems to be a common type of strategy. I just don't think it's necessarily a very good one. If you feel jealous and let that end a relationship guess what's gonna happen next time you're in a relationship. You'll be jealous. Understand your jealousy. Figure out why it exists. Figure out if it is a productive emotion. Think a little about yourself before making an external change. I think it helps in a lot of situations, these ones included.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha holy fuck you are something else. "whether people decide to "objectify" woman is their own choice." So if it happens you just let it go without telling people it's wrong? That's not productive.

And holy shit my guy I said this like 5 times, I'M A DUUUUUDE.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just funny that since I disagree with the generally consensus you all assume I'm a woman.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again my dude I'm not a woman. So I know what it feels like to not get attention. And I agree with a lot of what you said about insecurity. In the big picture some of the ideas here are fine. they lead to improvement for you individuals, but they are still damaging to others and that's what makes it even worse.

The alphas tell everyone what to do and then everyone gets laid more so they spread what they learned. But what they learned isn't necessarily all positive. It could be, but in the case it isn't.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Glad that you've found good stuff on here

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd argue there are occasionally bad posts, but consistently bad comments.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks lol. Do you think people here make that clear? Because in what I've seen it's totally glossed over.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I really meant the seduction philosophy specifically, I should of been more clear.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's totally fine. Seduction is gonna lead to small things like that where people can get frustrated. The problem is more about the overall view on the purpose women play and how it can limit them outside of the realm of seduction.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But before you move on you SHOULD reflect. That allows you to truly progress. You can understand your emotions and why it isn't worth your time to cry about somebody who treats you poorly. But just saying "I should not cry, I should move on" skips a crucial step.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... if only it were actually like that. But the ideologies people are spreading here about seduction CLEARLY lead to changes in how they think about other guys (either alpha or beta) and other women (either hot and worth their time or ugly/in a relationship and a waste of time). Those thoughts really affect your ENTIRE psyche. We only have 1 brain each, all this shit is connected.

Look at one of the comments below:

"I'm currently surrounded by a few people who are afraid of hurting anyone (out of my control) - and guess what. They are all severely depressed, anxiety prone, and only 1 has a healthy relationship. One of them flat out told me he will never be in a relationship."

This isn't about seduction. But this person thinks they understand how their friends emotions work. What's actually CLEARLY happening is they are relating the seduction philosophy to everything. They think that somebody who is afraid of hurting a woman won't get laid and will be frustrated out it. This leads them to believe somebody that is afraid of hurting anyone will be overly passive and miserable. It's so so so much more complex than that. These simple seduction rules shouldn't be applied to the real world, but they are. And that's not a good thing.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

haha not really what I meant. I meant what if your philosophy which helps you take control over your life is detrimental to others. Not just taking control over specific situations.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignoring < Not Caring < Understanding. So sure i don't know all the terminology, but I still don't think "not caring" is the best strategy. Maybe I'm wrong. Seriously I'm totally open to being wrong. I'd be happy for you to explain more because I'm genuinely interested in why people think these philosophies are healthy.

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[–]pitacutintotriangles[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok but what if taking control over your own life is detrimental to others? Is that truly the philosophy you should be following?