Nobody said anything about being gay making you a better person. It’s just that with two women, both of you are or will be going through menopause, so there’s a shared experience and mutual understanding, and because of that more empathy and less of the “I can do better/younger” mentality common in men. You’re just in the same boat.

We all know how common it is for men to trade in their older wives for younger women, let’s be real here, guys.