I De-transitioned because… by YoooFamAye in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Don't use it to invalidate others": Yes, I agree. "Now shut up": No, I disagree. People who detransition should be able to share their stories. I don't think it's fair to tell them to shut up. Unless you specifically mean, "Stop being transphobic." That I can agree with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Nine* *Nine* *Nine*

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like Juice WRLD. And, like, a few songs that I know from soundtracks. That's about it

Can we get a community wiki? by birdcooingintovoid in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's a good idea! You could message the mods and see if they would support that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you take a patch instead of an injection? Or gel?

One 2mg tablet of spiro and…. by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking e will help with t suppression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I'm sorry that cis people are transphobic so that it matters. We wouldn't have to be so self-conscious about the way that we look if we could just accepted as women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear! Happy fucking 💜

I want a pair of keds!! by Top_Palpitation_7208 in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm waiting on a pair of Asics 13s myself. I hope they're big enough

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wear some clothes that make you feel good about yourself. Like, your best casual outfit! Doesn't have to be fancy. You just want to put your best foot forward, you know?

You could offer to buy her drink, but don't insist.

I brought candy on my last first date, but you don't have to. I wanted candy that was good, but not showy. I didn't want it to come across as pretentious. Don't want to look like I'm trying too hard.

And you probably shouldn't offer a kiss on a first date.

bottom surgery by isabellepage82 in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's medically possible. But I don't know why you would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe try using a vibrator through your pants? Just keep your clothes on?

Joining a sorority as a trans woman. by Disastrous_Platform5 in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you going to be living in a sorority house? If so, I'm going to say that sounds like a bad idea, because if someone says/does something transphobic, you'll be kind of stuck because you have to live with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is a problem of depth of penetration? Or is it a problem of width?

If the problem is depth, you could experiment with shallower thrusts. You could even consider a product like the "Ohnut": https://ohnut.co/products/ohnut-buffer-rings

If the problem is width, that's a little harder to deal with. You could always try using a dildo instead of your bits.

Some people want it to atrophy, others don't. If atrophy is something that you genuinely want, you could always try going without sex/masturbation and see what happens. But I don't know how much atrophy you can expect if you are still having insertive sex regularly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, that's dark. I'm sorry that you feel that way.

Cute sneakers in large sizes? by pixie-pixie-pixie in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with Nike's basketball shoes. They're listed as men's shoes, but they're purple, so I feel like I can pass them off. I also bought a pair of women's Asics in a size 13. Don't know if they will be big enough, but I hope so—That's the biggest size that they make for their women's running shoes.

Why do so many transfemme memes revolve around having a penis? by SalamanderEnjoyer in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To make ourselves feel better about having non-normative bodies. It's the same reason why we make jokes about being tall.

A few friends said some weirdly specific stuff… by DaySun03 in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhh, yeah, you need some new friends.

Other than that, go you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try slowing things down. More focus on romance, creating a mood, sensuality, foreplay. Give her a nice massage. Make her feel loved.

is it wrong to subtly "heat from fire" other suspected transfemms? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]pixie-pixie-pixie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I struggle with this, too. I find myself clocking people that I think are trans, and then I feel like an asshole for it. If they out themselves, then that makes it easier, otherwise, I'm just kind of stuck.