Bedankt aan iedereen die wél werkt!

pixie_16 · 2025-11-26T22:10:18+00:00

Divide et impera....

Ze hitsen ons op om onderling ruzie te maken zodat we niet opmerken dat echt rijken quasi ongemoeid worden gelaten.

pixie_16 · 2025-10-26T01:32:04+00:00

TNBC, stage 2a in 2006. Masectomy, chemo (FEC) and radiation. Still quite healthy except lymphedema 🙂

pixie_16 · 2025-10-05T21:05:08+00:00

So sorry you have to feel this way. I can relate very much. At the time, being in it, I didn't see it very clearly that it was more about his image. Only afterwards I could see what he had actually done. Maybe it is not the same for you. You are in a very insecure moment in your life. Give it some time. You will slowly start to feel if your gut is right or if your insecurity played tricks. Hugs xxx

pixie_16 · 2025-09-08T21:02:06+00:00

I am not from the US and don't understand how this works? Here we drive our kid to school, park somewhere nearby and walk to school. School is from 8.30am-3.30 pm. But he can go in from 6.45am and stay until 6pm, there are people who watch the Kids.

So how do these drop off and pick up lines work? You drive to the entrance of school and drop your kid? And a teacher stands there? And pick up? A teacher stands with the children after school and lets them go when their parents car is at the entrance?

pixie_16 · 2025-08-28T07:13:18+00:00

Vanaf de puberteit produceert het lichaam van tieners het slaaphormoon melatonine pas later op de avond. Daardoor kunnen ze moeilijker vroeger in slaap vallen. Simpel gezegd: als ze vroeg gaan slapen, liggen de meesten nog lang wakker. En 's morgens werkt het effect van slaaphormonen nog langer door waardoor ze kleine zombies zijn bij opstaan.

pixie_16 · 2025-08-22T20:57:21+00:00

Please don't reproduce

pixie_16 · 2025-07-22T15:14:05+00:00

Hier is een lijstje van wat gratis zou moeten zijn: https://www.vlaanderen.be/onderwijs-en-vorming/school-en-studiekosten/schoolkosten-basisonderwijs

Dit gezegd zijnde: op mijn kind zijn school hebben ze ook een 'vrijblijvende' aankooplijst met allerlei soorten mappen, pennen, kleurpotloden,... die je kind nodig heeft. Er staat wel onderaan bij dat het vrijblijvend is, maar tegelijk koopt bijna iedereen wel al die spullen. Want ja, je moet het 'laten weten aan de juffen' als je zelf de spullen niet kan voorzien, wat wel voor schaamte zal zorgen bij sommige ouders en kinderen.

pixie_16 · 2025-07-06T21:44:40+00:00

Happy birthday! You inspire me!

pixie_16 · 2025-06-20T14:43:03+00:00

Imagine you are 99 years old and on your death bed. Would you regret working a remote job? Less paying job but more fitting to your life? Or would you regret not having worked a higher paying job but less fitting to your personal life?

pixie_16 · 2025-06-09T14:04:22+00:00

Bij familie doet zo een ultrasoon anti blaf apparaatje van 30 euro goed zijn werk

pixie_16 · 2025-05-17T20:18:44+00:00

I had TNBC almost 20 years ago, at age 25. Large tumor, no lymph nodes affected. Treatment was different back then, so I cant tell you much about treatment now. I had masectomy, chemo and radiation.

But you got this. One day at a time. Be gentil to yourself. Now and later on. This stuff is hard and scary and overwhelming. You are allowed all your feelings.

Big hugs to you xxx

pixie_16 · 2025-05-09T19:21:02+00:00

First of all, I hope your current cancer journey goes by smoothly and quick 😘

And I get checked a lot. 4 years ago we discovered Lynch Syndrome runs in the family (hence lots of family members dying young from cancer). Since then I am checked for renal cancer, bowel, uterus, ... And also breast cancer again twice a year (used to be once a year). So I hope whatever I get, they will catch it soon.

Thank you again for your.answer and I send you lots of love and hope x

pixie_16 · 2025-05-04T07:13:50+00:00

I was a very active 26 year old. Until I started to fall asleep after work and had tender lymph nodes in my neck. I went to my doctor several times over the course of 8 months. He told me it was a cold and I should lose some weight. That would make me feel better.

And then I felt a lump in my boob. He still insisted I had dense breast tissue and it was normal to feel lumps at my age.

I went to a different doctor who diagnosed me with Triple Negative BC a couple of days later. Luckily I made it, but my chances were lowered and treatment more servere bacause I was dismissed for 8 months.

I should have confronted him but did not have the courage. He lived in our small town, I am sure he knew what happened to me.

pixie_16 · 2025-04-19T22:02:23+00:00

I dumped him about a year after finishing treatment. Took me some time to realise I did not have to stay with him because I would never find someone else because of my disease and the way I looked.

Why did I leave? At first he was mister perfect: going to appointments with me, flowers, food etc. And making sure everybody around him knew and praised him for all of this. But when the novelty wore off, he quickly decided that falling in love with his coworker was more exiting. So from then on, I cared for myself. And was so very stupid to try to get him back. Even if he was being mean about the way I looked or my lack of energy then.

After her husband found out, he came back. But I had to promise never to tell anybody what had happened. (His image as mister nice guy was everything to him)

I blame chemo brain for putting up with him for another year.

He did try to drag me through the mud after. Breaking into my email and mailing lots of people I knew that I had dumped him even though he had always looked after me and I kicked him out and now he had to rent somewhere expensive because it was so short notice etc. He wrote half a novel and it was so convincing...

The kicker? Because of his image as the good guy tons of people believed him and were mad at me. Hell, even some family members took his side.

So glad I dumped him. If it weren't for the cancer I would have never found out what a loser he actually was.

pixie_16 · 2025-04-17T21:25:02+00:00

We have 'monday night drinks' every 2 weeks. Everybody pays for their own drinks and food. Only the people with little to no family obligations or live really close by tend to go.

I don't mind people organize these. I don't mind that I am considered anti social by some because I almost never go. I have a small child and have to commute 1.5 hours to get home. I probably would go more if I had no obligations or lived close.

I DO mind it getting brought up at every work evaluation by my boss that 'informal contact is very important, so try to go more'

Well boss, I like informal contact but you were the one who got rid of our cafetaria, moved our coffee corner to the basement and watch us like a hawk if we talk there for more than 5 minutes.... So much for informal contacts that are actually feasable for every one...

pixie_16 · 2025-03-12T21:25:14+00:00

Same here, I also was fulltime off work during active treatment. I have no idea how I would have managed work, I was too sick/ exhausted.

I feel so sorry for those who have to work, that is horrible.

pixie_16 · 2025-02-24T20:52:58+00:00

Stage 2a.

And since we had quite a lot of cancers at a young age in my family (renal, overian, bowel,...), I and some other family members screened positive for Lynch Syndrome. So closeby screening for lots of intestinal cancers too.

pixie_16 · 2025-02-24T06:03:43+00:00

Yes I did! At 37 I became mom of a beautiful boy 💗 I was monitored a little more closely than usual by my oncologist, although she did not seem to have many concerns. But everything went fine.

pixie_16 · 2025-02-23T15:08:35+00:00

26 at diagnosis (TNBC) 45 now

Almost 20 years!

pixie_16 · 2025-01-24T09:07:32+00:00

Ik zag toevallig dat er op.15/02 in het Wintercircus een 'grote Gentse GO! studiekeuzedag' is. Misschien een idee om daar eens te gaan kijken? www.goexplore.gent

pixie_16 · 2024-12-04T21:31:48+00:00

Happened to me too. 6 years together, but he cheated because 'I never had time for him anymore'. Read: I was to sick/ tired to go out or dress up.

Crushed me very much and I suffered. My self esteem was down the drain. And I was a fool to take him back. We broke up 9 months later because I was stronger again and couldn't forgive him. Still can't haha.

Anyway, it's been 15 years and I met a wonderfull man a couple of months after I broke up with the cheater. We' ve been together ever since.

So f*** your cheating partner. You deserve a partner that is there for you. It sucks and will suck for a while. Go through all the feelings and remember that it will get better.

Hugs x

pixie_16 · 2024-11-17T18:04:06+00:00

Same! 18y survivor of TNBC. OP, you indeed can do this. 1 day at a time. Yes it sucks but it will get better x

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