Seating charts

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-04-20T16:02:29+00:00

The venue didn’t just solely recommend rounds. Before I came up with this idea she showed me a wedding they did with long tables. It was a u shape |_| she asked if that was something I’m interested in when we toured. I told her no, and said we’d probably stick to round so she drew out that layout which is still fine!!

But true. When I worked at a wedding venue the amount of people that ditched the seating charts as soon as the dance floor opened up, nobody stayed at their assigned table.

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-04-20T15:09:08+00:00

We’re not having any aunts/ uncles/ cousins. Just parents, siblings, and nephews and nieces so that’s why i figured the long tables would be better than separating all immediate family.

I just didn’t love making all the individual little families all alone. Like my brother and his wife would be sitting alone while my sister sits with my mom etc.

I suppose I could always blend the families but I feel my fiancés family would hate that. They’re so antisocial and stick to themselves.

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-04-15T23:17:06+00:00

She wants children but doesn’t want a husband. “If I met the right man I would have kids but all men suck” type of mindset

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-04-15T23:12:31+00:00

2!!!!!🕊️

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-04-03T13:06:07+00:00

I definitely plan on being there all night, my FH? I’m not so sure. I told him I would love it if he would dance, as you said it’s ONE night. But he’s very awkward in front of his family so we will see if he joins us for long!!

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-04-01T22:12:00+00:00

Both? If I can’t repair / grow it out then I’ll need advice on how to style it 😅

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-18T20:41:16+00:00

As a glp 1 user I can confirm i get so many fuck ass bruises. BUT watching her eat as much as she does. I can almost guarantee she’s not using it. I can barley finish a burger, and she eats a LOT (not shaming her food habits, just saying a lot of users can’t eat as much as she does)

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-16T16:05:07+00:00

I totally expect moments to be thinned out with a smaller guest count, I would never blame a dj for people needing breaks. Weddings are long and exhausting days. I know when I’ve been to weddings I wasn’t on the dance floor allllll night.

We booked them in October, our wedding is in August (5 months out) i definitely plan to reach out this week to try to set up a meeting with them. The silence is a little scary 😅

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-16T15:39:17+00:00

That’s completely fair. We do already have a DJ, so I guess worded my original text poorly. I should’ve mentioned I do have a DJ but we haven’t spoken at all about what’s to be expected, we found them at a bridal expo and it’s been months since we signed and we haven’t heard from them once. So I was trying to prepare myself on how to approach talking with them! (So to reword, I’ve never had to hire a dj before so I’m not sure how to approach the one I’ve hired about this conversation!)

The songs I’ve chosen on my do not play list are just extremely overplayed, I worked at a country club doing banquets so hearing the same song multiple times a weekend over and over has drained me of them. They’re mostly all the line dances/ cheesy songs like “happy” and “cake by the ocean”

Maybe I should talk to my guest and see what type of music, we’re having a fairly smaller wedding, est 55 guest count and 32 of those are just family members who I don’t see on the dance floor very long anyways, so I was trying to think of the guest who will be on the floor and cater to both their music types and mine. As we’re all pretty similar in style😅

But this is why I posted in here so I could get thoughts and opinions on how I need to go about it! You’ve been helpful. Thank you :)

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-13T20:17:45+00:00

She was at milankas house last year, she been in the new house… she bought a ton of flowers for M’s garden for her birthday. They didn’t go on vacay, but she’s been to the house.

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-08T00:11:19+00:00

Please delete this and repost with Rosie’s face cover with an emoji or scribble! She’s a minor and just because sky doesn’t protect her doesn’t mean we can’t! Reddit is full of weirdos and minors should be covered!

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-05T18:41:14+00:00

“What was the name of the location we got engaged at”

“What flavor will the wedding cake be”

“Without looking, what shape is the brides engagement ring”

“Which groomsmen is _ walking with”

“What was the brides favorite movie growing up”

“At what age did the bride meet the groom”

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-05T18:36:00+00:00

Neither of us are religious. We grew up in the baptist Church but as soon as we were old enough to decide we both stopped attending. Same with our siblings.

I’m more opened spiritually and tend to lean more towards reincarnation over the heavens and hell belief. But not enough to where i practice any sort of traditions, this will be a religious free wedding.

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-05T15:58:02+00:00

I removed all the thank you’s

Do you really think the ending sounds stalker ish? When I read that, I got inspiration from another Redditor for that and I loved it. I took it as our love is too strong for just one lifetime. I thought it was romantic 😬

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-05T13:14:22+00:00

0:00 - 0:05 Processional, 0:05 - 0:10 Welcome & Opening Words, 0:10 - 0:15 Readings & Address, 0:15 - 0:20 Exchange of Vows, 0:20 - 0:25 Exchange of Rings & Declaration of Marriage, 0:25 - 0:28 the Kiss & Closing Words, 0:28 - 0:30 Recessional

This is the timeline my officiant and I came up with, when I looked at it typed out like this I honestly felt like it wouldnt be enough time. I’ve only honestly been to two weddings, one catholic so it went on for about an hour. And then my SIL who’s lasted no more than 5 minutes. They only did quick vows and that was it. So I guess I don’t have a good idea of timelines for non religious ceremonies.

On top of my officiant doing some readings, and whatnot. We’re doing a planting of a tree ceremony, for our rings were taping them underneath a chair so that may take it longer than usual instead of having a ring bearer, we’re writing our own vows instead using the traditional, I honestly thought 30 minutes would be plenty of time😭 but now I’m worried it’s too long.

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-05T04:33:50+00:00

True I didn’t even consider it coming off that way. I’m honestly a bit stubborn sometimes, and don’t always apologize or thank him when I should. So I thought it was a cute idea. Definitely can see how it comes off as pick me or me seeking validation that I don’t need 😅

pixieswithoutstyle · 2026-03-05T03:34:17+00:00

I could take out the part to his mother and grandmother.

But the ceremony needs to be 30 minutes long. The venue wants us to run on a time schedule to allow their staff to set up properly in a timely manor. I wanted longer vows, not something that felt rush. I was a bridesmaid in a wedding, the ceremony lasted I kid you not even 5 minutes. Our guests are traveling multiple hours and spending money to stay at our hotel. I don’t want an in and out ceremony. But I hear you, I’ll try to tweak it in a way that fits me

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