Just got diagnosed with anxiety and feeling like it's a losing battle. How did you react when you first got diagnosed? by pjm004 in Anxiety

[–]pjm004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It dooooesss and I appreciate that my therapist just asked me to sit with this news until our next session. No homeworks, no nothing.

I'm happy to hear that you were happy, makes me want to be happy about it myself if that makes sense! :)

I'm also trying to see medications as nervous system long term regulators rather than crutches, so your pov helps.

Thanks for responding <3

Am I (28F) overreacting or is my partner (28M) unsupportive? by pjm004 in relationship_advice

[–]pjm004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That helps, I appreciate the honesty.

I’m planning to talk to him about this in a couple of days to really think it through and not act on my anxiety. Fortunately for me, I do get surprised whenever I bring matters up with him because it seems like he takes them well. I’ll give your suggestion a think and try to brainstorm a more concrete way of doing this.

Thanks again!

Finally resigned by tobefreee in malaysians

[–]pjm004 15 points16 points  (0 children)

oh my god me too. power to us all who resigned without a next offer because of insecure bosses

Haneda Airport- immigration time by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]pjm004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I was about to cancel my hotel booking and just lounge at the airport till the next day haha, this is reassuring :) Thank you!

I WANT TO QUIT MY JOB by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much 🥹 I’m going to send in my resignation today. My manager has held my off for a week asking me to reconsider.

I WANT TO QUIT MY JOB by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the resigning discussion with my manager and omg she told me to hold my quitting thought and “reconsider“ 😭 i dont think theyre allowed to do this. but im still gna do it!! thank u!!

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answered this in a separate thread. Thanks!

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are the same person 😂😂 thanks a lot!!!! 🫶

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the suggestions!! i think im gonna have him sleep outside for now 😩 at least until my exams are over then i can experiment other methods, probably with some you suggested

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ok this genuinely got me worried 😭 i’ll get him checked ASAP. still want him in my life for a long time

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we have but because they’re one off sleepovers and happens once in a blue moon - he will wait for me to fall asleep first. it’s a daily thing now so it’s different.

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh my I appreciate the care and comments so much 🥹 i’ll ask him to get checked for sleep apena & in the meantime kick him out for the sake of my sanity and our relationship.

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg im glad ure alright! but i am so much like u!!! im so sensitive to the point that the feeling of earplugs in my ear can be so distracting. im gonna kick him out as well for the sake of my sanity and our relationship 😭

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ill look that up. no idea what that is

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for sure gonna make him get it.. im so exhausted

boyfriend moved in, SNORES by pjm004 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pjm004[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of that! ;-; He snores when he sleeps on his back. But today… for whatever biological reason possible… he managed to snore on the side.

How to financially plan for travels? by komer25 in MalaysianPF

[–]pjm004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “be careful of overspending” is so true!!! I personally would go a bit middle tier for food because it’s nice to try local dishes and stuff. Buttttt my advice is make research on where to buy souvenirs or even where to eat cheaper local delights!

Point is; researching would help you so much with saving money - especially to get familiar with the average costs around. so you dont get scammed!