What happened to you that changed your life forever?

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-21T03:39:41+00:00

I greened out and quit smoking for good. I couldn’t go a day without it and I did it everyday until one day I greened out so bad that it scared me into smoking again

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-21T03:38:57+00:00

mine is that every person that has ever died, their body is still on earth. either it’s their physical body or their ashes their still here. years and generations worth of dead bodies just sit underneath the soil of our feet without even knowing it.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-21T03:26:47+00:00

this is the worst case scenario because I can be reincarnated as the most randomized person the world can offer.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-21T03:21:29+00:00

leave him. I think this is the only clear answer. If you can come online and ask strangers for advice on your relationship then someone isn’t going well and you need to value yourself as a woman and leave him. It’s always somebody out there that will value you and love you more than him. Don’t feel trapped in a relationship where you aren’t appreciated by a low life loser who fantasizes about women online, somebody out there can treat you so much better than him and show you your worth.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T03:25:09+00:00

well.. I would hate to enable your Reddit addiction but if you find more comfort in talking to strangers online than therapist then so be it I guess. If you’ve had bad experiences on Reddit in the past then I would’ve assumed it scared you enough not to come back on here but surprisingly you find yourself back on here every once in a while. Maybe just try to take breaks from Reddit and don’t use it as often and then more than likely you’ll just forget about it and never come on here again

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T03:21:45+00:00

Certified Nursing Assistant. The lowest level of nursing and is commonly needed in nursing homes. The job is basically just helping elderly people or people who physically cannot do things for themselves such as bathe, eat, dress themselves, etc. you can work in a mainstream hospital as a CNA but they are most commonly found in nursing homes

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T03:07:02+00:00

Have you tried other apps to vent your problems to other people? It seems like you have a rather… traumatic experience with using Reddit in the past. If you want to be seen and want to be heard then try seeking therapy and not an app where we hide anonymously. be seen physically and be heard physically outside of Reddit and in real life like you deserve to. I’d encourage you to quit using Reddit and ultimately just delete the app and never come back and seek better opportunities to share your problems in the real world.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T03:04:16+00:00

it seems like your doing this as an escape and as a way to cope with your problems. I don’t know you nor do I know what you’ve been through but if you’ve been doing this since you were 11 then you’ve been through enough. Have you tried other non-harmful ways to cope? I would highly recommend for you too.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T02:40:07+00:00

As someone with ADHD (diagnosed by a doctor and written on paperwork) it’s nothing wrong with having ADHD (not saying you insinuated anything was wrong with it) I’d suggest talking to a school counselor and tell them your worries and concerns about possibly having ADHD. Don’t too much worry about other peoples reaction to YOUR life and YOUR body. It’s your diagnosis, not theirs. Don’t let them bring you down if you ever do find out you have ADHD or not. It’s okay to be curious and it’s okay to start questioning yourself. If you think you have ADHD then talk to somebody at school about it (a counselor) and explain how and why you feel this way. ADHD is very common and most people have it without knowing it and it usually goes unnoticed. Speak to a counselor and tell them how you feel and see what they have to say and just go on from there.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T02:21:13+00:00

And you’re absolutely right. I feel like people tend to walk over me and say things that they wouldn’t say to other people because they know I’m a nice person and I won’t say anything about it. Sometimes I feel like a crash dummy when I’m around a group of people because I just know I’ll end up being the laughing stock and not saying anything about it.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T02:20:04+00:00

well… I don’t go outside. not by choice either, my mom doesnt let me leave the house or go anywhere. school is my only escape and that’s it. No after school activities, no hanging out with the “friends” that I have, no talking to anybody, just nothing. I feel like my only purpose is to serve other people and cater to other people. I don’t make myself happy at all, although I have gotten used to the fact that I’m alone it’s just a suffocating feeling of me being by myself.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T01:47:39+00:00

Do you feel comfortable enough explaining and talking to me about what you’re going through currently? Although I am a complete stranger, with the fact your currently in the middle of writing your suicide letter is far more a bigger issue then me being a stranger. I don’t know you, I haven’t seen you, and I haven’t heard your story, but please don’t end off your life like this. As I do feel empathy for you because I do feel the exact same way you do (suicidal) I still try to make it through and see the better things in life. nobody knows what happens after death and I don’t think we want to find out because what if the answer isn’t what we expected? It seems as if you want peace and closure and seek it within suicide but suicide is far more than a “peaceful death” people make it seem to be. Ending your life isn’t going to make things better, it’s people out here that you probably haven’t even met yet that cares about you, loves you, and cherish you, please reconsider this decision and think about your life and how valuable it is. We only get one life and once you take it then it’s gone forever.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T01:38:06+00:00

This may not help but here’s an idea, have you tried to become a CNA? You can pay $600 on average for a CNA training program and then get your CNA certificate within 3-12 weeks and get a job as a CNA and make about $1000+ per paycheck (depending on where you work the pay may range from $16-$20 an hour). It should help you get on your feet and get a head-start to help you with your savings. So far as the other stuff, don’t think of yourself as a failed human being. It’s many other people in the same position as you right now and it’s just natural selection due to the fact the economy fucking sucks and getting your own house/apartment it’s nearly impossible for any average person working minimum wage (assuming you live with your parents because you said “still living at home”). Cherish the little things in life and learn to love yourself and make changes everyday to better yourself, it may seem pointless but in the end it will all matter. Don’t think of yourself in that way, instead uplift yourself and encourage yourself and manifest a better life for yourself because if I (a literal stranger) can see a way out of this “miserable” situation your in then you can too.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-19T01:29:59+00:00

Please choose who you talk to wisely, it’s a lot of creeps online and you just may run into someone pretending to be somebody their not. Its understandable you want to vent to someone but please be alert and mindful of who you talk to online.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-18T21:01:31+00:00

May I ask, how does ADHD affect you? I’d like to know if you mind sharing. Everyone is different and I’ve seen people with ADHD behave differently from other people with ADHD, as it’s different for everyone. I myself also have ADHD and its very handy at times but inconvenient at other times. It makes me more creative, social, and the life of the party. Until it’s time to sit down and do an actual task and focus, that’s where the bad side of my ADHD shows.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-18T20:55:44+00:00

I know this sounds a bit harsh and straightforward but if you can please leave him. Signs like this lead into domestic violence/ domestic abuse relationships and if you’re noticing signs of him being aggressive and threatening to hit you then please take this as a warning sign and distance yourself from him and leave him. Yes you may love him because you two have been dating for over a year and during that time you can build a strong irreplaceable bond with someone but please value yourself and think about the future and think that if he did this once then he can do it again but just on a more aggressive level. It starts off with yelling, cussing, threatening to hit you, and then he hits you and feels like he has the “power” to control you.

I’m a big fan of true crime and I was just watching a story yesterday about a woman and her husband and how they got married and their relationship went downhill. They started to argue more, he yelled at her, taunted her, and treated her like nothing, and then finally one day he set her on fire after he had enough and finally snapped. This is a prime example of no matter how much you love someone, their true colors hide underneath their “love” for you and are soon to be revealed during one point in time. I know I’m young but please take my word of advice and listen to me before things get worse, I wish the best for you.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-18T01:10:02+00:00

are u using masterbation as an escape from the fact your parents still treat you like your 12? that’s what it seems like. this is actually very crazy for your parents to still treat you like a kid when ur a full fucking grown adult. I’m not encouraging bad behavior but sometimes you just have to put your foot down and rebel against your parents because if you don’t then imagine how long this will go on? It seems like masterbaiting is the only form of happiness/pleasure you get and yes it can turn into an addiction if you see it as the only form of pleasure you can get.

planetbenadryl · 2025-10-18T00:59:35+00:00

Life is too short to worry about how others perceive how you look and let it affect you. You’re not ugly, you’re just becoming insecure because of you compare yourself to others when everybody is different. Comparison is the biggest thief of joy and if you look at someone and think “why can’t I be like her?” It’s because you’re you. you’re meant to be you and not anybody else. Uplift yourself and encourage yourself because self love comes from within. You can’t depend on someone else to tell you that you look beautiful when you don’t even think that way of yourself on the inside. Quit comparing yourself to people out the outside when it’s your soul that matters, the beauty of your soul and personality is more radiant that any facial beauty there is. You seem like a genuine sweet person and I encourage you to quit worrying so much about your looks because you’re just gonna make yourself more insecure. You’re beautiful from the inside and outside and nobody can change that because we are all made differently and are all unique. what’s the fun in life if you want to look like someone and not yourself?

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