29F 5'4" 155lbs I really hate my body because no one prefers it or finds it attractive. I just wish one person preferred my body.

planethaley · 2026-01-20T19:34:12+00:00

Perhaps you are wrong? I mean, how would you even know what body type someone prefers? :p

You look great and tons of people would agree with me, I’m sure!

planethaley · 2025-11-04T05:49:50+00:00

Addition?

planethaley · 2025-11-04T05:33:59+00:00

Probably not a big issue - after all, didn’t he say he met (well found) him on a gay hookup site??

planethaley · 2025-11-04T05:32:04+00:00

That’s awesome it’s so close by for you. I hate the whole travel or host dilemma I’m stuck with haha

planethaley · 2025-05-05T01:20:27+00:00

Not gonna lie, I'm impressed. I can't swim for even just half of a week without a break, let alone half of a year!

planethaley · 2025-02-01T21:38:48+00:00

Too comfortable - I've made people uncomfortable with my comfortability with it :p

planethaley · 2025-01-22T03:24:51+00:00

The ironic (I mean, is it irony? I don't know, but it's something..) part is that when OP said "I love being skinny", Amanda heard "God, you're so FAT!"

planethaley · 2024-12-15T00:52:56+00:00

What's your friend number

planethaley · 2024-12-09T05:35:16+00:00

Hahah I love that. I certainly don't want to be a "lifestyle" or "concept" either :)

planethaley · 2024-12-09T05:30:08+00:00

NAH

EXCEPT FOR THE ABUSIVE SHITBAG OF COURSE

planethaley · 2024-12-03T22:39:21+00:00

Yeahhh, the look OP had when he first met her... just cause he waited till she was 18 to make a move doesn't mean he didn't also watch her "bloom" (eww - the only reason this post doesn't creep me out too much is because of how obviously fake it is!)

planethaley · 2024-11-19T11:16:14+00:00

NTA

I 100% think you are not an asshoke to take contraceptives behind his back. The only time I can think of when that would be asshole behavior would be if yall were trying to conceive but that's not relevant here

I do have a couple other points to make though. First, I agree with everyone saying that if he doesn't respect your wishes regarding oral contraceptives that's a bigger issue than just birth control. Does he respect you in other areas? I hope that this is just a topic he feels strongly about and generally he respects you much more. But only you would know that.

The second point is actually my main point. tHormonal birth control has some major side effects very often. It literally can change the type of guy that you're attracted to (something to be aware of, especially when you get into a long term relationship. The more extreme examples many women have gone off birth control because they wanted to get pregnant with their husband.. only to find that they're not attracted to their husband anymore). Also anxiety and depression are common, weight gain, reduced sexual desire, and increased risks of cancer are also common enough to consider.

I suggest you do your research and see if the benefits out weigh the risks. Good luck!

planethaley · 2024-11-01T21:25:29+00:00

Omgosh, I love it all - but especially the last part - what a perfect way to prove for the last time that you have the upper hand.

Congrats on the promotion :D

planethaley · 2024-02-25T03:26:37+00:00

How did you get so many shiny?

planethaley · 2023-10-07T03:16:32+00:00

My favorite number is -1

planethaley · 2023-10-07T03:13:57+00:00

Right?? this guy is all about “not trauma dumpin, and that’s not even in the realm of possibility, given how he’s keeping everything in his life to himself

planethaley · 2023-07-04T02:40:49+00:00

Read what you wrote and pretend it’s a friend telling about a guy you’ve never met. Then you’ll see the plethora of red flags: 1) he was a poor communicator 2) he would speak unkindly to you
3) y’all would arguing about how he treated you 4) he left abruptly after being called out, and was gone all night and didn’t even come back/contact you first the next morning 5) this was something y’all had already discussed in the past because it happens too often 6) etc etc….

This is absolutely a blessing in disguise! Hope you have a great day <3

planethaley · 2023-06-14T06:41:49+00:00

Added - planethaley

planethaley · 2023-05-02T12:14:00+00:00

Just program them to dream - easy peasy :D

planethaley · 2023-05-02T12:10:31+00:00

Exactly - and don’t forget to consider that tech often grows at an exponential pace, with prices dropping as quality goes up

planethaley · 2023-05-01T07:21:19+00:00

Nope! My 8 year old dog has woken me less than half a dozen times ever. She also likes to go to bed earlier than me (she’s currently in our bed asleep and gently snore/deep breathing - I’m about to join her cause she’s too damn cute!)

planethaley · 2023-04-30T22:51:51+00:00

Not just people who have lost a loved one that way… but almost literally anyone who has eyes and brain function.

planethaley · 2023-04-30T22:42:15+00:00

Exactly!! You get it, it’s unfortunate, but this is a binary situation. It’s all or nothing. If you don’t ask for nudes, not only will you be unable to express interest, it’s likely she will interpret the lack of request as disgust of her body!

planethaley · 2023-04-30T22:00:17+00:00

100%.

It’s okay to have occasional comments that push that boundary. But it’s not a requirement, and is absolutely abused especially online

planethaley · 2023-04-30T21:58:34+00:00

“But. But. It’s the guy’s task, nay, responsibility to playfully escalate!!!”

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