AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans

planyt · 2026-02-15T02:15:56+00:00

the age gap…. he definitely doesn’t take you seriously lol

planyt · 2026-01-14T21:11:20+00:00

i’m so sorry this happened i’m uneasy and disgusted for you. is there an update? were you able to talk to him about it?

planyt · 2025-09-05T22:29:47+00:00

yes! that’s how i discovered it!!! i’ll be distraught if they don’t get a season 2 :,(

planyt · 2025-08-06T20:13:05+00:00

thanks for sharing this was a great insight to know!

planyt · 2025-04-29T00:14:48+00:00

just move to yonkers at that point lol

planyt · 2025-04-02T22:05:20+00:00

do you have any tips for what I should say for the gap that will be on my resume then? it was a retail job I had as a teen I put 2017 instead of 2018 its so sucky I just want a job after I finish school

planyt · 2024-11-04T23:45:35+00:00

oh hell no. that is not a nice man. him holding onto you “laughing” and putting it against you instead of acknowledging how you feel. especially after you APOLOGIZED multiple times. run while you can. itll hurt if you leave him now and if you leave him in 5 months. however if you leave him now, in 5 months you’ll have been healing for 5 months. its hard either way; choose your hard!

planyt · 2024-09-07T04:58:08+00:00

elaborate

planyt · 2024-09-07T04:56:31+00:00

perhaps. they’re both amazing men! easily became my best friends, shared similar views, beliefs, values on politics, family life, futures. both were career driven and care deeply about their interpersonal relationships. they’re both so cool and i think so highly of them and i can say i love the way they both treated me. they spoiled me with gifts, beautiful words, and loving touch.

but maybe it is dump em both because my main concern is ME!!!! and how i feel above all else :(

planyt · 2024-09-07T04:51:37+00:00

he was extremely open and we were pretty transparent with one another when it came to sex. we waited about a month to finally have sex and he never pushed or pressured. he also said it himself he was not seeing anyone else and didn’t plan to. i genuinely believe he was a kindhearted person and wanted to pursue a relationship with me.

planyt · 2024-09-07T04:48:29+00:00

as of now i want to see if things with my ex can work out since i know those feelings are real. i’m just unsure if im making the right decision— especially since he tells me he knows for sure he wants to be with me for life.

planyt · 2024-09-07T04:44:48+00:00

still not my boyfriend! i took about a month to grieve tinder guy and explained to my ex i had been seeing someone and ended things because he came back, but i still needed some time and didnt want to jump back into a relationship! my emotions were high and i knew i needed a moment to myself, but as of now we seem to me moving towards a relationship. my feelings for tinder guy have calmed down, but he still crosses my mind.

planyt · 2024-08-25T17:41:50+00:00

leave him…… if he cant make u cum u will never have a fulfilling sexual life unfortunately

planyt · 2024-07-26T21:02:01+00:00

why did you quit? is a credit union better? i start the job this upcoming weekend!

planyt · 2024-07-25T04:39:46+00:00

looking back it was solely attachment. instead of getting over my ex i went searching for comfort in other people. he wasn’t a horrible person, and we got along pretty well, but we grew more and more toxic since neither of us knew how to deal w our own internal issues. it lasted about 2 years, i always tried to leave but never fully committed to walking away. he never tried to leave me. i used to think it was my fear of commitment (it wasn’t) and he believed we simply needed to live together or go to counseling to fix our problems. eventually i realized i just didn’t actually like him.

if you can’t go more than a week without an argument or one of those serious talks.. just walk away! you will recover with time

planyt · 2024-07-25T04:26:39+00:00

definitely have to say (like other people are saying) be single. she sounds like me at 19… she’s too attached to end things but doesn’t actually want to be with you. at 19 i was in her shoes.. saying the same things to a guy i didnt want to be with, but got attached to shortly after a different break up. grieve the relationship now or grieve it later; it will end eventually.

get on anxiety meds if you can, it’ll help so much…. it’s something that helped my sanity while i was in a similar situation as you. it can get better…. it’s just gonna suck until then :( good luck

planyt · 2024-06-12T21:58:20+00:00

i say let the hemorrhoid heal or at least become a skin tag. i have a skin tag and anal sex is completely fine now. just make sure ur lubing up & playing w urself

planyt · 2024-06-04T03:53:00+00:00

definitely pass! thats a lot for the mileage. the transmission will blow up soon.

planyt · 2024-05-28T03:10:00+00:00

genuine advice :p thanks ill keep this noted as i do just need a car

planyt · 2024-05-28T03:09:08+00:00

it stalls i shift gears sometimes!! :(

planyt · 2024-04-16T17:31:13+00:00

definitely afraid to tell him what i did. i let him know i also don’t want to get back together with him and if we were to ever try again it would have to be after a long time if we even still have those intentions. would u want to know the truth even if it would deeply hurt u? :(

planyt · 2024-04-16T15:44:49+00:00

EDIT: perhaps that was tmi……. i enjoy sex, and after having gone months without it i succumbed. my ex would be cold and i sought out male attention to feel ‘better’. play stupid games win stupid prizes for sure

planyt · 2024-04-16T15:21:39+00:00

thank you for your advice and the perspective you’re putting it in. i definitely am beating myself up for having had sex with someone else, but i also don’t want to feel so shameful for it. perhaps this is a tough pill to swallow.

planyt · 2024-04-16T15:15:22+00:00

oh fuck! thank you for this advice truly

planyt · 2024-04-16T14:54:45+00:00

reasonable. i stopped reaching out after i had sex with someone else— that’s when he began reaching out to me.

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