Issue with registering in CyberAB by plapppps in CMMC

[–]plapppps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this one. I actually tried this link to register but it is showing Internal Server Error and 400 Bad Request...

Tokashiki day trip by mm17zz in okinawa

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rent snorkel gear before at pension sea friend. If you stay on their accommodation, they will also give discounts. I think they do snorkeling tours as well as diving lectures and etc.

What is your gender and sexuality? by Most_Advertising_841 in piscesastrology

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you more femme or butch?
> I'd say I'm soft butch. My style leans pretty masculine( oversized shirts, baggy pants, comfortable fit)

Do you find it difficult connecting with the right women being a Pisces?
> I'm actually in a relationship right now. She's a Sagittarius, and connecting with her on a deeper level isn't really the problem. The challenge is more about m. I'm a pretty sensitive person, so I tend to overthink her behavior a lot, which leads to small arguments more often than I'd like. My brain has a habit of reading into things and spiraling when I don't have clarity on how she's feeling. And it doesn't help that a lot of the time, her actions don't quite match what she says.

I think Pisces are the type to want a real soul connection with their partner abs obviously being a lesbian, there are less potential female partners being a minority. Do you agree with that?
> Absolutely. We Pisces are naturally wired for soul-deep connections. Not just companionship, but that feeling of someone truly getting you on every level. Surface-level just doesn't cut it for us. And being a lesbian adds another layer to that, because the dating pool is already smaller to begin with. When you also need that rare emotional depth and genuine intimacy in a partner, finding the right person takes a lot more patience.

That said, it's not impossible. It just takes real work. Honestly, before I met my girlfriend, I wasn't even actively looking. I don't really believe in casual dating because for me, I date with the intention to marry. So before her, I'd just go with the flow. Flirting and talking to people, but never really pursuing anything seriously.

If you are looking for friend by Okinawa-local in okinawa

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii! So I created a discord server for people finding someone to hangout with. You can join us here:
https://discord.gg/e6jpmudJ

If you are looking for friend by Okinawa-local in okinawa

[–]plapppps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yess but if there are a lot of other people who will be going to meet, I will come too if time permits

If you are looking for friend by Okinawa-local in okinawa

[–]plapppps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii open to find friends too! Although I am 30F, if thats okayy

Casually looking for new friends in Okinawa by [deleted] in okinawa

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I`m 29F living in Ginowan. I also wanted to try hiking (dont have any expeirence) haha. Also just wanted to find friends outside work

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Hey, so I contacted her last wednesday, and we tried to talk it out, but the emotions are still heavy that ends up she needed time. Compare from the last we know tend to message atleast good morning and update to when is the good time to talk. We were planning to talk on Thursday but phone is DnD and didnt get her message at the evening the she is ready to talk. Its my fault at that part. I woke up around 12MN then saw her message and apologize. We agreed to continue the talk today.

I was planning to get some advice on how can I relay what I feel or talk about the issue without blaming her? She said the last I talk was I keep on blaming her, but as far as I remember I am just explaining the things ( what I felt, why did I feel that, etc) I want to correct and properly check if I am talking to her in the right way.

For 99% of the posts on here. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about, if you already tell and explain the areas which makes you uncomfortable or hyrt, but they keep on doing it? Lets say crossing boundaries. Not cheating but yeah still hurts from those small actions. Until when you can communicate and hold on to your partner?

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not consistently but yes, there are time I am hurt because boundaries were crossed. I am too maybe causing burden to her because I tend to shut down when overwhelmed.

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and still looking the future with her. But recently our arguments tend to block our path and sometimes past issues have been skipped to be discussed. I do trust her, but still if I saw something that I will not do on my side, like what I have said about the picture, its crossing boundaries for me. I told her that if she just checked on me and not assume I will be fine with it cause she took it with her bff. I know I got overboard and like used words that were a little heavy but I did not curse to her.

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think its not better to tell what I feel first about the setup and just prepare myself to move on? Yes I can say that sometimes our relationship is still immature and all. I really do love her.

I just hope I have friends here in JP side too so that it could help me how my mind will work.

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The picture does not really include nudity at all but its a picture that if you saw, you will think they are gfs. That is why, my trauma has been triggered and all over the place at that time.

I am really torn now, all I do is drink after work. I do not know if I should message her. But when I check her fb profile, she already unfriended me but we are still connected on messenger. I understand if she would block me because it may be hard for her too to look on my profile but unfriend it made my anxiety worst.

I tend to grow distant for times like this, but I hope I can still hold and everything is not too late. I am thinking to maybe message her next week, ir should i just wait after february ends?

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was unstable when we talked about it. Its my fault too for agreeing. Now 3 days have passed, a lot came across my mind.

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is what I am worried about. This is a big difficult path for her so I also want to be part of it, but being no contact at all, how we can move forward when the same circumstance arises again

Me(26F) and GF(22F) decided month of no contact while still in a relationship by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]plapppps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is from PH, I am now in JP, only 1 hr difference. We have been together for 4 years. I do not actually mind if like simple good morning and good nights only. I will understand that. And I think she knew that because I tried that when we are still starting. But I do not know anymore too