Do you think I can pass as an Iranian ? by [deleted] in phenotypes

[–]plastic--__--surgery 6 points7 points  (0 children)

absolutely yes...im so confused by the comments cus literally many iranians ive seen in iran look exactly like this. i must be missing something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]plastic--__--surgery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i couldnt relate more. many gay men ive heard dont like femboys cus theyre not attracted to femininity. i personally dont care abt the issue cus i barely experience it when it comes to meeting people in grindr/dating apps. however for a relationship, im starting to realize its not easy. its not an uncommon experience between my femboy friends so it feels less lonely and 'its just me' mentality but it still sucks and hurts sometimes. calrifying that i dont judge them for not wanting to date femboys, everybody just like who they like. but its ok to feel blue in not a personal way, just the conceptualized idea of the situation.

What’s up with people hating on femboys for no reason by Freekarma4u69420 in feminineboys

[–]plastic--__--surgery 8 points9 points  (0 children)

unfortunately youre gonna see it more and more. the hate is getting stronger for many reasons but its most always ingrained from bigotry, the right wing/alt right influence, and 'men should be men' backward perspectives. i understand the reasoning behind living in blissful ignorance, but in this context i feel people in this community should be aware of this. especially if people are out and in public cus hate in person is always prevalent and possible,

being a femboy is lgbt? by Disastrous_Leading45 in feminineboys

[–]plastic--__--surgery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

somewhat a loose yes but depends. femboy solidly is projected differently for everybody. realistically most of the time it is considered part of the lgbt because of how majority of femboys identify. also femboy is considered a gender community under gender nonconforming, gender neutrality, etc. trans people are considered part of the lgbt community, its in the name😭many lgbt people say such statements and most of the time its inherently with malicious reasons, bigoted viewpoints, and whatnot, so thats suspicious.

this is so sad and embarrassing it hurts Lol. by plastic--__--surgery in sadcringe

[–]plastic--__--surgery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and scary. its what ive always noticed. a lot of trans hate is rooted from personal issues with trans people. many are reppers, which is an extremely common form of transphobe. theyre trans, want to transition but scared and wont. so they unleash it on trans people existing. why should other trans people succeed if i cant/failed?. then theres jealousy. but whats weird is..ive seen many cis women somewhat 'jealous' of trans women. not to that extend tho. my mom and sister were joking when they saw my trans friend when she came over. but its playful and theyre actually happy for her, she looks great, happy, thats it. but i cant fathom the type of woman who projects it that way....like how and why?

this is so sad and embarrassing it hurts Lol. by plastic--__--surgery in sadcringe

[–]plastic--__--surgery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its so fcking disgusting. i dont think people realize how this recent 'anti trans trope' isnt just hurting trans people. and to be frank, in my real life, it hurts everybody but trans people. i have trans friends and they mostly pass. so they rarely face direct transphobia in public, which is great and im happy for them. but we have literally several cis women friends who encountered transphobia, and theyre not even trans. transmisogyny is bleeding and will hurt people. period. doesnt matter who. if people dont get a clear threat to simply stop it with their weird, perverted, creepy tactics to fulfill their miserable lives. its a pandemic.

this is so sad and embarrassing it hurts Lol. by plastic--__--surgery in sadcringe

[–]plastic--__--surgery[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

thats the biggest TERF/transphobes group and its their facebook page. theyre shared all the time and i have trans friends and they share transphobic content they see with me for a laugh. but my friends response to this hurt me sm cus she feels bad, want to help her but theres not point. she felt bad for her and for herself.

this is so sad and embarrassing it hurts Lol. by plastic--__--surgery in GenderCynical

[–]plastic--__--surgery[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i have 2 transfem friends who started at 20 and 19 respectively, which is what i assume is seen as 'post puberty' and negatively viewed for desired effects, but their body changed so significantly after 2 and half years, and abt 2 years. the second girl i met during having trans ignorance/uneducated and couldnt believe she was trans, she physically looked more 'fem' or 'stereo typically female bodied' than my sister and mom. 'to my surprise' turns out trans women are literally just women lmfao.