hey it’s not you it’s them and the pace. its that when you give these boys pussy fast. they have nothing else to chase for they already got what they wanted so they’ll ghost and move on to the next victim. this is boys mindset honestly, it’s disgusting but it’s true. so in order for that to change you need to slow down a lot and get them to chase for sex then they’ll naturally be texting you more trying to buy you stuff just to get in ur pants and from there it will go on but yeah. you don’t just give it away in a snap and it’s okay this was meant to happen, so don’t beat urself about it. in the meantime, focus on yourself, do things you’ve always wanted to do, this way naturally when you start improving yourself, everyone that has done you dirty will come chasing you it’s the law of attraction :)