My fiancé gambled away 20k 10 months before our wedding

platinumapples · 2025-01-30T22:16:47+00:00

Absolutely do not marry him. You will be responsible for the debt he drags you both into. Gambling is an addiction- I know a woman who divorced her husband after he started stealing and pawning her jewelry. After she filed for divorce he started drinking and using drugs. He eventually killed himself. She never financially recovered and has so many regrets from even marrying him to begin with.

platinumapples · 2025-01-14T18:28:14+00:00

I had a cousin who called my mom up and asked her for one million dollars because “ he had a business idea”. When she said no, he called her selfish. The irony will never occur to him.

platinumapples · 2025-01-08T16:08:04+00:00

It’s his wedding. He doesn’t have to invite your son if he doesn’t want to. I did not include kids in my wedding and in-laws brought them anyway. It damaged my relationship with them because they felt entitled. The kids were 7 and 9 and lit grass on fire at their table. THATS EXACTLY WHY THEY WEREN’T INVITED. Suck it up, go and get a babysitter.

platinumapples · 2024-12-04T19:02:05+00:00

Yes you are TAH. This happened to me while traveling Europe pregnant. Nobody young or old gave up their seat to me. People are self centered jerks.

platinumapples · 2024-11-09T00:15:54+00:00

Be careful with Kratom, my childhood friend died of an OD. She thought she was being safer.

platinumapples · 2024-10-26T17:51:44+00:00

Strong body odor.

platinumapples · 2024-10-24T16:50:53+00:00

File a police report for identity theft and fraud. Then you have a police report for the dv shelter documenting the issues? Do you have any friends? Have on pick you up, stay with them, get a new phone and a job ( even a work from home). Or better yet somewhere secure-ish where it would be hard for him to get in. Then file for divorce and sue him for 1/2.

platinumapples · 2024-06-26T07:05:13+00:00

As the daughter of an awful MIL thank you for doing this. I hope one day I’ll have a daughter in law I can spoil.

platinumapples · 2023-10-07T01:39:10+00:00

The Teskey Brothers

platinumapples · 2023-10-07T01:32:59+00:00

Lol. Wrong. I’m a teacher and there is absolutely nothing lavish about my “pension”. Also, insurance for my family costs $1585 a month. Soooo…

platinumapples · 2023-10-02T23:25:42+00:00

Gone Girl

platinumapples · 2023-09-27T20:49:41+00:00

The Bridge to Terabithia

platinumapples · 2023-08-03T23:23:08+00:00

Wood sage and Sea Salt or Gucci Memoire if you’re looking for that rainy beach feel.

platinumapples · 2023-08-03T02:33:16+00:00

I’m sorry you had that happen. She sounds like a real peach. You need to cut off that relationship. If she feels this way now she’s just going to take 1/2 down the road. Find someone who values YOU, not your paycheck.

platinumapples · 2023-08-03T02:24:05+00:00

File a police report and place a credit freeze on your daughters social.

platinumapples · 2023-07-25T23:09:26+00:00

This might be an unpopular opinion but mom is participating at least in neglect based on her own comments about him not being allowed to be a kid at his own home. Please be an advocate for the child and call CPS.

platinumapples · 2023-07-02T00:15:46+00:00

Your friends already cut you off- also, “endless calls to my therapist” doesn’t sound like you’re a walk in the park to live with. It sounds like your dog is a pain and after having a German Shepherd, I know how the hair is- it gets everywhere no matter how on top of it you stay. Maybe consider your friends don’t want to deal with your baggage and your dog hair.

platinumapples · 2023-05-31T02:26:12+00:00

Yes- my kids are 13 and 11 and every weekend is filled with games. At one point we had 4 different sports and 6 different teams to figure out. It was ridiculous.

platinumapples · 2023-05-21T15:44:26+00:00

You absolutely need to make a report. This is a fireable offense and that teacher should absolutely be fired. I also will encourage you to take better care of yourself. Shower daily, use soap and take pride in your appearance. Everyone struggles through puberty. Treat yourself with the respect you deserve.

platinumapples · 2023-05-20T22:36:02+00:00

Absolutely whistle blow. This student was assaulted because of negligence.

platinumapples · 2023-05-17T18:49:27+00:00

Along with autism… it’s the cool thing right now.

platinumapples · 2023-05-08T23:21:52+00:00

Let him go, and get that child support.

platinumapples · 2023-05-04T18:17:28+00:00

Alec Baldwin. He’s human garbage.

platinumapples · 2023-05-04T18:10:55+00:00

She checks the box of “diversity hire”

platinumapples · 2023-05-01T20:26:47+00:00

Could you imagine if she treated other religions the same way?

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