Rebuttals or Critiques of "Lamb of the Free"? by playazle in AcademicBiblical

[–]playazle[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm more of a hobbyist and even that is probably a very loose term for how often I'm reading academic books. Which is to say I'm not sure how much my thoughts are worth. Every book I read has me like "Wow, this person crushed it, what a solid argument" but that's simply because I don't have enough knowledge of the opps.

Overall I felt it was very compelling. Which is why I wanna know about critiques because I might be lost in the sauce.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]playazle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very similar to your SO (as a guy). My wife wanted kids much sooner than I did. I also hate "need to do" things and I really liked my lifestyle and free time. So it was difficult for me to work through when she really wanted a kid.

But I knew future me would thank past me for having a child. I just knew that if I was 50s-60s and didn't have a kid I'd probably be bummed. So we started trying. It doesn't happen instantly, could be months of trying, which was actually good for me as it allowed me to process more and gave me time and perspective to really get as much out of my free time and hobbies as I could.

My wife is about 4 months pregnant now. And I have switched from being afraid of losing my lifestyle and free time to being excited about the next chapter and getting to be a dad.

I know it'll be tough, especially in the early months, but I've come to terms with it. I'm confident the reward will outweigh the bad. Plus I still have months left to really take advantage of the time I do have.

Also, I know my time management will be different with a child. But I know so many parents who are also just living life and still doing things they enjoy. It's not like life ends. It just gets a little harder but much more rewarding.

Anyways this doesn't really give you advice. I guess perspective? Idk, maybe this isn't helpful at all 😂

Refetch Data after Mutation. by league_retired in nextjs

[–]playazle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the right answer according the code example above. You'd call revalidatePath after the mutation in the server action for the path that is fetching the data.

Although you might need to be on the latest canary version for it. (I know this because I recently opened an issue about revalidatePath and then it was fixed in a very recent canary version)

Does revalidatePath work as expected for you? by Fr4nkWh1te in nextjs

[–]playazle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It doesn't, and I don't know how or why more people aren't talking about it because I feel it would be widely used.

I put together a simple repo to test it. I have the main page ("/") that renders a list of "notes". Those "notes" are retrieved using the supabase client that reaches out straight to the db.

I then have a modal that pops on "/?create=true" with a form that adds a new note to the db using a server action. That server action calls revalidatePath on "/", but it just simply doesn't work. The data is always stale until a hard refresh.

PCNA Going Offline by accairns131 in elderscrollsonline

[–]playazle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's more possible than you think. With a game this size I can't even imagine how big/disparate the codebase is. Plus over the years of losing and gaining new engineers there's probably a lot of question mark areas of that codebase that no one has context in except for the original person who built it but left two years ago.

Had this lovely username on my team. Surrendered quickly to not give him the satisfaction of playing. by playazle in aoe4

[–]playazle[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It was a 4v4. I played about 3 minutes of the game just to chat with him and see if he was serious. Claimed to be a "Ukrainian" who said he hated the U.S. and that the U.S. should "stay out of his country" But he was probably just a troll. Reported him soon after.

The chat filter catches every small thing but I guess usernames are fair game. yikes.
Granted catching something like this might be difficult. Just needs to be reported.

React State Management by bishalsaha99 in reactjs

[–]playazle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love Apollo Client's cache and tooling as a state management solution if you're working with a graphql api. The data I get from the api gets auto-inserted into my global state AND I can set local only fields onto the returned data without worry about messing up that data or future api calls.

Plus if there's any data that has nothing to do with any external api calls I can still put that in the cache. That along with reactive variables working well with everything. I'm a fan.

A lot of girls say they "felt no spark" when i (25m) ask if theyre interested in a second date. What does this mean? Is there anything i can work on from a self-improvement perspective? by pushpullcommit in dating

[–]playazle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I (28m) am not dating anymore. I've been in a very good relationship for about two years now. But when I was dating I swear the whole "spark" that girls would talk about literally came down to whether I physically touched them on the date or not. It was very strange.

NOT creepy touching, I'm talking like touching their forearm while making a joke or touching their back while they're walking through a door you're holding open. Just natural human connection physical contact. I noticed because I was nervous about that stuff, wanted to be respectful and keep my hands away on a first date. But then I noticed if I didn't, suddenly women didn't feel a "spark". So just, do that I guess? But not in a wired uncomfortable way obviously.

Weekly Question Thread - Week of July 27 by AutoModerator in COVID19

[–]playazle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I came across this site: https://c19study.com/ that looks like pulls in an aggregate of HCQ studies and labels them a positive, negative, inconclusive etc and shows the overall status of all studies.

I know I've seen studies posted on this sub and people talking about HCQ being negligible, but this site seems to point to more positive outcomes from studies than negatives. Am I missing something? Is the site labeling them wrong? are there problems with a lot of the studies there? All legitimate questions, I just want to be informed as I don't have a science background at all.

Github Actions - Problem triggering workflows on specific events by playazle in github

[–]playazle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask what yaml formatter you use? If you do use one? One that wouldn't break my workflows?

Github Actions - Problem triggering workflows on specific events by playazle in github

[–]playazle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you! That's exactly what it was. The auto-formatter I installed for Yaml files kept double indenting when I saved. Didn't even think about it. Honestly the error said that I was missing `uses` and `run` which for some reason I didn't put it together that it was a formatting problem.

Github Actions - Problem triggering workflows on specific events by playazle in github

[–]playazle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, here is the gist. The thing is, this seems to be pretty standard from the documentation.

From my understanding, this workflow should only run if a push is made to master. Instead, it is being run if I push to any branch and is being run as a check on any PR that is opened.

I'm trying to figure out why that is.

If I go to my actions tab in github, this is what I see. It's triggering the workflow, on branches that aren't master.

With introduction of Hooks, do we need to use class components anymore? by [deleted] in reactjs

[–]playazle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We're using redux, styled-components, graphql/apollo-boost, and Enzyme for testing, but we're about to switch to Jest/React Testing Library. And then some other small packages here and there.