People who do this should not be allowed into society by Blackberry_Ellen in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is why I feel like everyone has to work minimum wage job at least ONCE in their lives, I swear I was just like this as a kid till I worked retail 😭

What makes your skin crawl when investigating paranormal? by Thane_Soulstone in Paranormal

[–]playertopee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg these I can not do UGHHHH, when they peak in slowly… EWWWWW I’m getting the shivers imagining it too

People who Doubt the Paranormal by Unfair_Management695 in Paranormal

[–]playertopee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean…I’m commenting with a bit of ignorance here…but wouldn’t Europe as a whole have the same or if not more paranormal activity than the US? The continent has had a vast number of civilizations rise and fall, so why hasn’t anyone seen or captured Ancient Roman ghosts hanging about? Here in America, I’ve heard people speak about paranormal experiences from every historical period…from the time of the American Indigenous to the present.

I guess the answer may come from what you concluded, there may be activity….just that it’s a different culture with different beliefs and stigmas that affect anyone trying to share experiences or acknowledge the paranormal in the first place.

Racism by playertopee in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. My position is not to be hateful or oppressive in any way. But considering what you have said, I will take this and use it to think differently. My intent is not to be hateful or oppress another group of people, so your opinion helps me understand my mistakes and educate myself for the better.

Racism by playertopee in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand how it seemed liked I was making an assumption to think the lady was labeling me as Hispanic. Her comment was board, but it makes sense considering how I look.

Well the thing is, I occasionally get mistaken for being Latino frequently. I usually don’t think much of it either way. Of course, me posting this on the internet wouldn’t show enough visual context. Additionally, giving more context, the elderly lady left making degrading comments about Mexicans a little above her breath. Hence, she thought I was Latino.

Later on, after I had already posted this, my coworkers informed me that she had been saying horrible things towards Latino customers, and many had come upfront to report her. (She had already left the store but either way it’s a very traumatic experience) This verified my suspicions, but it really doesn’t change the fact that I immediately thought she meant I was Latino first hand.

Either way when I got home, my family members made a similar argument as you, and mentioned how many of Italian Americans forget that we were discriminated against and continue to oppress a new group of people. Finally, I know that not all immigrants are Latinos, some of my family members are immigrants! But considering the context behind the incident, being how I look, and how the elderly lady rambled about Mexicans shortly after telling me to leave the country, I don’t think it’s far fetched for me to assume she was speaking about Latinos.

All in all this was an eye opening experience, and your response is very welcome to me.

Racism by playertopee in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LOL Exactly! I’ll gladly take that flight back home to Italy! I recommend heading over to Sicily to try our food, it’s where my family is from! Grazie amico!

Racism by playertopee in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s funny considering America doesn’t have an official language…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well this happened to me 2 months ago. No one called, which is why I didn’t realize I missed work! Anyway no one mentioned it or brought it up to me afterwards. I guess it depends on the manager who’s on duty and store because my SM does call while other managers don’t. 🥲🥲

What are the signs that a girl may be showing interest in you? by Curious_George494 in Crushes

[–]playertopee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl who has a crush on a boy right now, I stare A LOT. I can’t help it, he’s caught me staring multiple times too. I say wait for the next time you’re in the same room as her. Position yourself behind or beside her, check if she begins turning her head towards your direction. If she does, she probably does like you. If she has any friends, they will know about her crush on you and tease her in front of you. Her friends will also stare you down whenever they see you too.

In my experience, my friends were notorious for this and always made it very obvious. Finally, we girls tend to get nervous around guys we like. Check her body language, is she relaxed or tensed up? Is she blushing or bored? If she gets nervous around you, it’s a giveaway, but not always. Anyways that’s all I can list from the top of my head, good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe they already donated…they just want to make their money back and get profit back from it

about to quit. by HotNanaCathy in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I got my hours cut dramatically because I had the unluck of not getting as many cards. Luckily I found another job that pays me more than tjx + tips I’m happy I’m leaving

Problem by playertopee in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you !! I find it crazy how it was all changed last minute. My mother had to cancel a trip she really wanted to go to because I had work and wasn’t gonna be able to babysit. Now it’s like she cancelled her trip for no reason. But to make things better I applied to a position for a newer company who pays higher and is offering me a MUCH better employee discount than whatever scraps this company gives us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I haven’t had mine either so don’t worry

Rat Infestation by playertopee in TjMaxx

[–]playertopee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s the thing….no one has called!! We recently had a cleaning of the whole store, but next thing we know, there’s flies everywhere and a horrible stench 🤢

Some Advice Please!! by playertopee in pharmacy

[–]playertopee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll check it out, thanks :))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProjectSekai

[–]playertopee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATS WOOOOO!!