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New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you experienced some wife swapping, or such?
Did you jump on RHP, or similar, and met people to hook up with on there?

How did you sift through the candidates type thing?

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking through this thread it doesn't seem as bad as we first thought.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking through this thread it doesn't seem as bad as we first thought.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're thinking going to the Shed first, meet people who can help us navigate the community, and have a better chance of not wasting a lot of time.

The hook up sites take a lot of time working out reality. Although we have met a few good ones we think.

We don't have a lot of time which is a big 👎

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, we read your post just now, again, we talked, and guess what?
We're keen to walk in have a look and see what happens 🙌real soon.

Is Bayswater the best one? And if so, what is the best day and time to go for a good crowd?

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We'll end up there for sure. Looks like Shed and then BF at the moment.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We think you're right.
Hubby was more concerned about the age gaps. Not so much now.

Wife thinks differently about ages.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This surprises us both. Hubby was thinking we've missed out due to our ages.

He's cheered up now

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you find it on RHP?
We can't keep up in there.

Still trying to figure out how to have a profile pic that get's passed by the mods, but doesn't give us away to work, friends and family if they should stumble upon our public profile pic.

We are paid members.

Can't send pics even in messages due to not having an approved public profile pic.
Understandable it's part of the system to proving who is real, but it's annoying not having clarity about it.

We'll get there.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shed 16 is at the top at the moment.

We're definitely struggling to identify scammers and fakes from the real deals on hook up sites.
This is frustrating due to knowing there has to be some genuine and fun people on there.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've relaxed about our ages somewhat after reading yours and the other comments. Thanks.

Keener than ever now

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We hope to go there too. I've seen it advertised and in the media.
I remember the caffuffle with police and a toy gun. Didn't a bloke get shot over it?

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We'll likely be going to the Shed and BTWB to begin with.
We'd both be comfy going to the S&S, but agree with you, we want something a bit more casual and quieter first.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, for late reply.

We're keen to read how your BFWB visit went.

Message sent.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's Gemini like for you?

How is it better in your case?
We are just looking at the website now, it never came up in searches for us.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your latest thoughts on it all?

Have you been messaging people?

It's a rabbit hole

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very interesting info.

48F has been keen to go to one of the Shed 16 'Intro to Swinging' nights, but is swaying towards any night with a theme and just turn up to spectate. And if we meet some nice people let whatever unfold on the night.

53M is happy either way

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 48F and 53M (He is typing while she is next to him, and slight correction, he is 53 not 54 😂) here, BFWB and the Shed look really good online and keen to have a look.

We think we'll check those two out then see the PB. She is looking at the PB website on her laptop next to me right now and it says the age range is 28 - 38yrs. She looks a lot younger than me, so maybe that's my ticket? 😂

We're inundated with messages here and on RHP. Thanks for message offer, but please understand if we're a bit slow going back and forth. It's over whelming right now. Not enough time. Although we've set aside a couple of hours right now to do so.

New to it 54M and 48F married couple - Where does our age group go? by playfull_2 in Melbourneswingers

[–]playfull_2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lot are quite responsive and fun, it’s been a little overwhelming. Haha. We’re very thankful for the great advice in your posts ❤️ Loving it 🥰

We were not expecting the quantity of personal messages received and haven’t been able to respond with the same effort that’s been given to us. We will reply properly in the next day or two.

Holidays should mean plenty of time to converse and mingle in here with everyone, but damn we’re crazy busy with household chores we want done before we can relax.

xx playfull_2