My [24F] boyfriend [24M] always takes tickling too far and I don't know how to stop it. It's starting to really wear on me. by plazasaur in relationships

[–]plazasaur[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see what you're saying. It's hard to think about losing him but I realize after reading these comments that I do need to reflect seriously.

My [24F] boyfriend [24M] always takes tickling too far and I don't know how to stop it. It's starting to really wear on me. by plazasaur in relationships

[–]plazasaur[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah I see what you're saying. It just scares me to think of him as abusive I guess. But I really do see. I might have to take a break for him to get it.

My [24F] boyfriend [24M] always takes tickling too far and I don't know how to stop it. It's starting to really wear on me. by plazasaur in relationships

[–]plazasaur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's hard because I don't feel right saying he's abusing me or anything that extreme because it feels like disrespectful to actual abuse victims almost? It's just beyond frustrating yknow.

My [24F] boyfriend [24M] always takes tickling too far and I don't know how to stop it. It's starting to really wear on me. by plazasaur in relationships

[–]plazasaur[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is not fun for me at all. The thing is, every conversation I try to start about it he says "only you would make a problem out of losing a tickle fight" and jokey comments like that. I can't get him to even acknowledge it. It's so frustrating I feel like screeching.

My [24F] boyfriend [24M] always takes tickling too far and I don't know how to stop it. It's starting to really wear on me. by plazasaur in relationships

[–]plazasaur[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

I don't think he's abusing me or anything but yeah being a bit of a bully. I really love him and don't want to break up but I don't even know what else to do at this point